mawarkuning

About mawarkuning

My name is Stephen. TJ in short and I have been a naturist close to the half of my whole life. If you don't like it, don't get in touch. My skin is happiest when there is no fabric trying to bunch into its crevices. Deciding what to wear is a nuisance, and if if I have to go to the toilet quickly, it's pleasant not having to unclasp, unbutton, or untangle. Getting intimate is also easiest without clothes. I love being naked. Unluckily, I don't live on an acre of land and can walk to pretty much any part of the property without my hiney and my nakedness not being spotted by human eyes (the squirrels maybe if they can't get enough). An unexpected gift is I can have a moment where my body unadorned with clothing. Otherwise, it would be awkward. Up until now I have no desire to join a nudist colony. I wouldn't know where to look when talking to someone. But I do wish clothing never became a nuisance. At least in Northern or if not Southern California, where it is usually warm enough to make clothing optional. If we never became accustomed to wearing clothes, it wouldn't be rude to stare at someone's different-colored nipples during a debate about the weather, wouldn't you say? And wouldn't parties be so much more entertaining if everyone was just wearing dress shoes, bow ties, and hats? I'm not often naked as I want to but I'm strategic about when I'm naked as my nakedness is for me. It makes me feel free, and connected to nature. That said, I used to hate being naked.In my late teens and early 20s up to college, I would keep a towel wrapped around my waist after a shower, I would wear a trunk suit in the shower at the gym, and I would banish lights before I go to bed anf get intimate (or try to slip my shirt back on while my lady friend was occupied elsewhere). I was a professional body-shamer, with my only target being myself. I didn't like the way my thighs chafed, and I loved big, belly-bulge-covering sweatshirts. All this body-hiding made me fold within, alone with doubt and self-judgment, only inviting food and television to join me. This did little to raise my body confidence.rnThis changed in my mid-20s when I dated my first girlfriend in college, and everything became different as she influenced me to be so comfortable of my body. And nothing but nakedness fit comfortably ever since.rnrnI am free and being naked is a stark reminder of that. Stripping down to my physical purity forces me to come to accept myself. I used to have plenty of moments where I felt like an odd-shaped sausage trying to fit into a pair of jeans that are just off.But when I'm naked, I'm not trying to fit my body into a space it doesn't want to go. It's free to enjoy its organic placement in this world. Single by conscious. And here are the many reasons why I choose to be single. I hate dating. There. I've said it. Let's be clear about the mechanics of this concept. Dating is only a flirtatious first sniff of what may later be mounted. No more, no less. And like the unwilling sled dog harnessed in line, my soul squirms at the thought of having to put my best foot forward; to gain a woman's sniff of approval. Dating is the required presentational stage for a possible future interlude. For this very reason, I chafe at having to be and I rail at the notion of the concept being charming, financially promising on men as appealing, engaging and alluring on women. There's a great myth that's been hoisted upon all men and women that dating is fun, and as women we should like it and as men we should participate in the thrill. I'm convinced it's a conspiracy crafted to guarantee an ongoing form of economic revenue, women are forced to buy new clothes and makeup while men are lured into exorbitant restaurants to prove their merit. The dating experience is tedious on every level. The need to dress up, straighten my hair and wonder if I'm good enough feels like poison running through my veins. It reminds me of my summers at the Minnesota State Fair where I'd see local farmers parading their cows, pigs and horses in hopes of winning a Blue Ribbon. I have a colleague who's a dating expert. She teaches the art of flirting in order to capture a woman's attention. I don't want art. I want to meet a woman organically in an environment where I can be myself and interact naturally. Women in particular are taught to find fault with every extra fold of skin; body dissatisfaction is part of our cultural DNA. Being a guy, I am certainly not immune. I spent six years at fat camps, from ages 16 on, trying to sculpt my figure into an ideal size 32. Never mind that I only to lose 20 pounds at most, I felt fat, and fat, in my household and in the world at large, was one of the worst fates. rnIt has taken years to come to terms with my body, but the truth is: I like it. It is muscular and strong and it survives 100-mile-long bike rides and 19,300-foot mountains. (Today, I joke that I suffer from something called A Reverse Body Dysmorphic Disorder; a condition afflicting people who think they look better than they actually do. This became evident a few years ago, when I walked up Ocean Avenue and checked out my reflection in a storefront windowpane. I eyed my stomach, my hips, my ass, slowly making my way downward until I rested on my calves.Damn! I thought.I look gooood.And then I realized I was looking at someone else).I love being naked while I sleep and find it more restful. I always sleep well but feel I sink more deeply into my body during sleep when I'm naked as I wake up more embodied. I am a non believer in excess textiles for they can actually get in the way of decent shuteye, because while it might seem like a good idea to be warm and cocooned at night, it actually is better to have a cooler environment. Body temp progressively declines as you sleep, which is a natural tendency of the body, so being too warm with heavy PJs and blankets can disrupt that; If you are too hot your body will alert you to wake up, but sleeping naked can help you keep cool. You should also opt for cotton sheets and blankets so air can circulate.

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