Str8, Gay & Bi Bros No Clot
This is a group for people to share there experiences about hanging around with there gay, bisexual and straight bros or friends naked in a non sexual way, and also there experiences with there gay bisexual and straight bros or friends that ended up turning sexual.And to make and meet new like minded people.
- created by Neo2100
Do you guys think jerking off together is a good middle ground where gay and straight guys can meet?
Return to DiscussionsSorry if this is too sexual but the introduction to the group ask about things turning sexual so I'm curious what you think about this.
So I'm curious if you all think that straight and gay nudists that are close friends can just rub one out together if one of them gets horny? I've done it before as a straight guy with a gay nudist friend I used to have and I heard others bring it up, just not here.
In my case I once had a gay nudist friend that was cool. We had fun hanging out doing the usual guy stuff like drinking and playing video games. Eventually once we got comfortable we started watching porn and jerking off together. I mean we're both nudists so it wasn't much of a stretch to do that together.
I also tried to be accommodating because he was gay and let him touch my dick a little or sometimes I'll put my dick in his face to help him get off. Of course he tried to go further in the beginning, but I found where the boundary was that I was comfortable with and we ended up at that.
I was good with it too because many times it sucks having to wait till you're home alone just get yourself off. I even once had a female friend that showed my her tits and let me touch them sometimes because she knew I liked tits. She refused to go any further because she had a boyfriend, but I was at least happy that I got to see and touch them. So I think he should feel the same, right? Shit I wished that I could have at least gone a little further and jerked off their to her tits instead of waiting till I got home.
We also had fun trying to find porn we both liked. It was even nice having someone that admired my dick and wanted to touch it. Because it really gets tiring dealing with women that never give a compliment.
Have you guys done something like this? Have you heard of other guys doing this? Or is it just me? Do you think this is a good compromise between straight and gay guys? Curious to hear what all of you have to say.
P.S. I will delete this after a short while for reasons.
I also think its ok, why not? Gay or straight. Male or female. If the mood is right and everything is consensual. I have had sex with others watching, masturbated with male and female friends. Its just fun and fun is good right?
I agree, it is just fun.
I love your question and this is a great place for this discussion! I'm a lifelong nudist and I have never been able to understand why masturbation and/or sex are treated the way they are by most nudists. Sexuality is as natural and normal as nudity. Thankfully, I have quite a few nudist male friends. We don't define our relationships by trying to label ourselves or the time we spend together. I have straight, gay, bi male nudist buddies that have had an appetite/need/impulse on more than a few occasions. Someone gets an erection...we go where it takes us. We've masturbated together, swapped oral, I've even bottomed many times. It's all in good fun. I've always believed an erect penis and a load of semen are terrible things to waste.
I totally agree!
For me I've done this also but I have to be transparent and say it's not enough for me, I like to be able to touch and be touched, a happy medium for me would be a frottage situation, we both get physical contact, some intimacy and satisfaction without any penetration. I had that with a straight nudist buddy but he always enjoyed being naked around other men. He would also like to cuddle and he'd get horny and want to lie on top of me and grind against me, which I loved, I also let him slip it between my thighs so he got the sensation of "being inside" and that was always sexy to me.
However, most of my experiences with straight and bi men always went further than what you're describing but I think it's all about comfort, boundaries and trust and I still maintain excellent friendships with those guys, and several are happily partnered with women.
Just a quickie, or should I rephrase that? As a mature nudist, I do masturbate, I enjoy masturbating and I love masturbating with other men. Yes, I am bisexual I would love that group stroking to go further, and it usually does. A great pleasure is to be with a few friends, all naked and watching porn and stroking our now hard cocks, whether they are bi/gay or straight men, everyone enjoys, I certainly do, does anyone else want to meet up and indulge in a film night?
Everyone masturbates because it's so pleasurable. It is very sexually satisfying and often done privately. Doing it together with your nudist friends as a social activity with would be fun. It brings open the personal sexual enjoyment. Jerking off is just a climax to masturbation.
Having a drink and conversation with your nudist friends, any friends, and accepting masturbating one's genital the same time, would be a very nice nudist social etiquette. We don't seem to accept touching g one's genital the same as touching one's face. Playing with one's own genital is the same as itch-and-scratch. ( only in this kind of forum can I express such unconventional view )
I am straight, but I am also open to experiment with guys if I get the opportunity. I think a naked meeting which can include (mutual) masturbation is a great idea.