St. Louis, Missouri (USA) Nudists
This is a group for any nudists in the St. Louis, Missouri area (MO or IL). I know that we have nudists in the area; so let's connect on here and organize something!
- created by JockIL
What seems to be the problem with getting people to meet?
Return to DiscussionsI've noticed a lot of people piping up on here, reddit, etc. about being nudists in Saint Louis. Despite that, people seem super hesitant to actually meet. I'm not sure why that is. I haven't been able to pin that down. So, let's have that discussion.
For us, our biggest concern is getting to know people. We would rather find a venue, for lack of a better, term, that is "public" (not out in the open, but it's not walking into someone's house). We don't mind getting nude right away, we just would to do so in a manner that feels "secure".
That might be everyone. So, what are your hesitations to meeting other nudists. Perhaps if we can hash that out, we can actually get some people together.
I hear ya. I am straight single male that gets unfairly looped into that giant 'creeper' pool. But what those dudes don't realize is they are totally destroying it for the rest of us.
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I enjoy hanging out naked because it allows me to strip away all the problems and pressures that I am feeling (I guess speaking literally and metaphorucally there.)
If you are looking for someone just to hang out naked with and nothing more, let me know.
We have talked to people that have posted on this chat, and we tried to get together with them, but they stopped responding. All we are looking for is nude, and we are a couple. Life is short, would like to spend some of that time nude with other like minded people. Before all the good nudist facilities shut down in the St. Louis area, we were able to enjoy nude activities almost weekly year round. Now there are no good places left around here, we have to go to a different states.
I am sorry you two are having such problems. What happened to all the nude places near you - some bible-thumpers come down on the spots you used to visit, saying nudity was immoral and it was going to ruin society? Or did some bad sexual element came to light? We used to have a beach about an hour from our nude resort where people could walk way down the nature preserve beach and were left alone with their bareness, but then some of the close residents noticed some bad actors doing sexual stuff, and rightly bitched to the authorities and the rangers began cracking down on the nudists. It's so easy to lose our rights when some cannot control their bodily actions. There is only one nude resort in Virginia and we live here! Not sure what we'd do if some state law was passed making our resort impossible.
Your bad luck with nudists you found in TN is too bad, but hang in there and keep looking for new friends. I think part of the issue with people backing out on you might pertain to what they are only curious about versus what they are really capable of -- talking about being nude or even going on cam with someone has a safety factor built in, the distance through the internet makes people feel safer to lose their inhibitions. Once the reality of a real meeting kicks in, the wimp-out effect occurs. We've had good success with the folks we've found in here who've made the trip to White Tail for their social nude needs being met. Persevere and keep trying, and try not to get any more discouraged than you already are. There are other people who want to be nude with you and you will find them! St. Louis has a huge population to work with.
Have you thought about beginning your own nude place, if you have some space to do so? It can begin small and just see where it leads, once you've found some folks and given them a safe spot to be bare. Keep your mind open, and always try to keep politics and religion out of the conversation. Divisive issues do kill the nude mood in a fuckin' hurry. The best of luck to you!We have talked to people that have posted on this chat, and we tried to get together with them, but they stopped responding. All we are looking for is nude, and we are a couple. Life is short, would like to spend some of that time nude with other like minded people. Before all the good nudist facilities shut down in the St. Louis area, we were able to enjoy nude activities almost weekly year round. Now there are no good places left around here, we have to go to a different states.