finally got my PA !
Return to DiscussionsWas surprisingly painless and really happy with it. I got pierced at 10 gauge two weeks ago and healing rather fast than I though. Question: when can I safely have sex with my wife without compromising it's healing process . Also, at 10 gauge now , can I skip 8 to go straight to a 6 gauge upgrade? When is the earliest time I can do this ? Thanks . Any advice is appreciated.
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Your body will tell you when it is ready to play. Let it heal and get a layer of flesh grown around the steel before you start yanking it around.
If you can't wait , wear a condom and your body will let you know when you went too far.
As far as stretching, they say twice as long for the healing time before moving up a size. If you tear the flesh then you are starting over and waiting for it to heal instead of a bit of stretching.
I don't think you can stretch more than a size before you need a break.
If you wear the same size for a long time then you can move up a couple of sizes but only after it has opened up.
Post a picture and let us know how you are coming along.
Good Luck,
Thanks for the useful info. I will try to be patient with it and not rush stretching it to avoid tear. I will go back to my piercer , Six, of Exotix in Toronto after six month to get his opinion about stretching tithe next gauge size.
My wife is not aware that I have a PA. Not yet anyway. Because she's not fond of me getting piercing. She only knows about my frenum.
Anybody else out here whose in the same situation? Where you hide your PA from your wife or partner because they don't approve of it ? I'm not sure as to how long I could keep this as a secret though.