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does my boner offend you?
Return to DiscussionsI love to be naked. It feels so nice to not be constrained and pinched by clothes. I also love to be naked around other men. I think its the camaraderie and the fact that we all have the same parts, so why hide them. It seems silly if you think about it. However I am a very anxious person. I dont want to offend anyone or rub them the wrong way. Lets be honest, I get a boner at the drop of a hat. Its not necessarily a sexual thing. Im not staring at people or even thinking about sex. There may not even be anyone around but if there is air hitting my junk it just happens. Ive been to a few men-only campgrounds and it always happens. Then I get in my head about what everyone is thinking. Do they think Im just there to get off? Which is definitely not the case. Do I belong here? It also makes me a little stand-offish. While everyone else is talking, laughing, and hugging, Im worried about giving people the wrong idea. Ive even been invited to a few local nude get togethers a but I usually decline because once again I dont want to offend anyone. Anyway I just wanted to get that all off of my chest.
Men get boners. Not sure why people have a hard time understanding that
It's what you do with it that matters. Nudism is not about sex and a boner can send the wrong signal. Unless you're in a swinging environment you can hide it by sitting or covering it in some way (no, I don't mean hang a towel on it).
Its sad that youre so self conscious about it. I agree with most of these guys, as long as youre not stroking it, and it just happens...thats nature and the male body. I WISH i had that problem. Mine is the opposite. I have a smaller dick anyway, and when Im hanging naked (which sadly is rare for me) i get so shy it turtles up. I almost need to fluff it so that its showing a little. But again, whatever it does naturally is nothing to be ashamed of....i just wish i had your issue over mine.
I think it is safe to say that every man at some time has had a boner or seen one in a non-sexual situation when sex was the furthest thing from your thoughts. In this case why be embarrassed or feel offended by it. It is just NORMAL body function that is taking place. It means you are healthy.
Yes! Your boner does offend me. I agreed to hang out naked with you with the understanding that you were a genuine... dare I say, True Nudist. Learn to separate sex and nudity and if you were that attracted to me, you needed to say so before we hung out.
I agree!! An erection is part of being a man. There are sexual erections and there are non-sexual erections. Both are part of being a man, both may have moments where they are uncontrollable. So why be embarrassed over something that is perfectly normal.
I'd joke about it, that it's proof that you dick doesn't get out much. With all the pronouned sexual orientation out there, you can create a new one: aerosexual, a man attracted to the breeze hitting your dick just the right way. Enjoy the freedom nakedness among men offers.
I have never had a boner in a nudist setting. The first time I was at a nudist beach (there was one attached to our resort in Jamaica when on our honeymoon) I was worried how he would react but had no issues. Just so calming and relaxing in that setting.
Since then I have been to other nudist beaches and my favorite nude resort Cypress Cove a bunch of times and never had an issue. Not since high school have I had a problem with control.
I personally think its in your mindset. If you do have one you should cover up until it
subsides. Just proper etiquette unless you are trying to show it off.