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Does size matter?
Return to DiscussionsI am a married bi male who is looking for male nudists in my area for fun this winter. I am afraid that I
may not fit in as I have a smaller male organ than most. As I look at many of the other men in the group I am embarrassed by my size. I have for a long time wanted to experience nudist male friendship, but felt that I would be made fun of! I am also wondering how I can introduce my wife as she has not been able to loose the excess baby weight so I am not sure how to support her if I am experiencing these issues albeit two very different issues. Any advice for wannabe nudists? We are both 71 years of age and desire to do something different and exciting. Would a small hot tub party for two couples be the way to go? Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Size doesn't matter for me. Who cares unless you are a very shallow person? It's just like age, some people put way too much thought or pressure on it. Same thing with weight. If people cannot accept you for who you are, you need to question whether you really want to socialize with them anyhow. Just my two cents.
Body acceptance is part of the foundation for traditional naturism. Accept who you are and be proud of it. There are plenty of nudist without perfect bodies. I would suggest visiting a local nudist resort. Most will do a tour to introduce you to the resort. Explain to the guide your fears. The best resorts will have guides that know how to ease your fears and make you feel welcomed as you she'd the textiles.
I am a married bi male who is looking for male nudists in my area for fun this winter. I am afraid that Imay not fit in as I have a smaller male organ than most. As I look at many of the other men in the group I am embarrassed by my size. I have for a long time wanted to experience nudist male friendship, but felt that I would be made fun of! I am also wondering how I can introduce my wife as she has not been able to loose the excess baby weight so I am not sure how to support her if I am experiencing these issues albeit two very different issues. Any advice for wannabe nudists? We are both 71 years of age and desire to do something different and exciting. Would a small hot tub party for two couples be the way to go? Any help would be greatly appreciated.
no one should mock you that would be awful, nudists are not like this. just trust instinct and let go of the fear and be beautiful proud people tell her you love her and she is beautiful and that you support each other in your first step
For a guy with a small cock to be out and proud about it takes a LOT more courage and self confidence than for the guy with an average or larger cock. For them its nothing. Or its a "pissing" contest to see who is bigger or a proof of being more macho than the next guy. Who needs it? Just dont enter that contest. Be proud. Be honest. Be yourself. Not easy but it is the way to go. Trust me.
One thing that stands out to me about nudists and most of the nude events and venues I have visited, is that all shapes and sizes are welcomed in the same way. Those of an unusual , or bigger, or smaller build seem to be a lot more comfortable in nudist settings than in textile.
I am a particularly skinny guy and for most of the time, fairly small down below. But I can now walk around in nudist settings without being selfconscious at all. There will always be someone better looking / longer penis / bigger muscles etc, than you, but you will also stand out to some others as having attributes that they'd like.
It really is all in the mind. But my experience has shown that, on the whole, nudists are a lot more tolerant and welcoming than most.
These things DO NOT matter! Be yourself and smile! I suspect many of us nudists had some sort of concern at one time or another about many things - often body confidence/acceptance, but once you try social nudity - you meet some of the most amazing people you will ever meet! You learn very quickly nobody is hung up on these things nor should you be. I think if someone even dare comment on these things in a social situation, you'd find many friends/supporters SCOFFING at such inappropriate behavior.
My first experience came with many concerns - but truly and honestly - within minutes a whole new, wonderful world opened up! It's a beautiful experience that can help erode many misconceptions, stresses, etc. Wishing you the best and don't worry about this type of thing. Not important.