Non-Swinging Nudists
a group for those who don't partake in the swinger lifestyle and for those who have had their nudist exp ruined by swingers...share your horror stories here.
- created by DMK1984
discussion..
Return to DiscussionsGreetings,
Well we have been to several clubs over the last 10+ years and have never been approached to do swinging. If anything if I were to be solicted I could just say sorry I get motion sick on the swing set and pass. Any how I know there are people that do that and if they are not willing to take no for an answer you report it to management. If thye are not willing to do anything about then jsut leave and write a bad review of the place. I am sure that will get their attention if that is not what they do not want to be known for.
Leo
We also don't have an issue with those that choose
"swinging/partner swapping" as a lifestyle or past time. We prefer
that they keep it to themselves and within the privacy of their own
environment. It's when they try and mix it with nudism, that's when
we become annoyed.
Yes, there are swingers who are nudists and nudists who are also
swingers but "nudism" is not about swinging or sex and that's where
the rub is with nudists. Trying to mix the two does give nudism
negativity it also has trouble combating society with and to add
swinging or those trying to add swinging to nudism, just makes it
tougher.
There's never been any doubt and no nudist will EVER say that
there's is no sex happening at a nudist club or resort. What they
will say is that there's a time and place and out in the open, in
public places where those that are not interested in partaking or
witnessing the sexual activity, is not acceptable and it goes
against nudism and it's philosophy.
We have had one trip that was slightly ruined by a swinger
contingent. We were vacationing for the first time at a upscale
resort in the Tampa, FL area. We were unaware that over the NYE
weekend, a large group of swingers kinda took over the place. All
kinds of sexualthings were going on right in front of us. We
found an area where we could just be by ourselves and waited until
the following day, January 2nd, for all of them to leave the
resort. It was almost strange to see the transformation of this
resort back to guests and residents and activity you'd expect to
see at a nude resort. Questions and mild complaints to
the management were ignored and we were made to feel as though we
were trying to start trouble. Sadly, we will not
return because the resort has gone completely swinger. It's a
beautiful resort but not for us anymore.
;-)