She did , he didn't
Return to DiscussionsLast night I hosted a couple in their 30s through Airbnb. In their initial request they mentioned they were excited about using the hot tub.
I have a pic of the hot tub with the house rules posted above it. 1. use common sense 2. no swimsuits allowed. And in the text I mention
that to use the hot tub house rules must be followed. I gave them the tour and we chatted. When I suggested a hot tub soak, she stripped right down , as did i, he declined a soak and instead on a very chilly and windy night got a lawn chair and sat beside the hot tub and visited with us for at least half hour before hitting the bed. Her and I continued our bare soak for another hour before calling it a night. He was fine with his wife hanging nude with a guy old enough to be her dad, but not comfy being nude himself seems a bit strange
My reaction wold be to leave him to enjoy his problem.
Incidentally, my son in law is not a nudist but their hot tub is a clothing-free zone because contaminants from detergent and other matter from swimsuits plays havoc with the chemical balance of the water.
but not comfy being nude himself seems a bit strange
That's one possibility. On the other hand, he may have just dreaded getting out of the tub with the chill and the wind. Especially if he was tired from driving all day and just wanted to go to bed after visiting a bit to be cordial. Ya just never know. I think I'd cut him some slack.