Tough being a single male
Return to DiscussionsBut you're right, it is tough, and the older you get, the tougher it gets. I'm finding that out now, and not just related to this site either. One needs a strong network of friends these days, just to get by; more if you're an 'over the hill' single like me.
I've yet to have a problem, before marriage I had nudist friends, while married We had nudist friends and since being single again, no problem ether. It's the old 'birds of a feather' thing, be a nudist long enough and you'll gather nudist friends.
Guys, why do you even wanna be friends or chat to people who are so narrow-minded that they exclude you automatically? If a woman doesn't want to talk to you, just move on and don't whine about it. There are others who will. You can't be friends with everybody.
I couldn't agree more.
I totally agree also. Some will, some wont, so what?, next.
I understand perfectly how you feel. Here's the reality about females here and some males too; most are bisexuals (nothing wrong with that) which is the newest of social trends. I refer to them in bitweens; they want to be liked by males and females or simply the same gender. Females will block you upon the word hi or hello. Also one can be kicked out of the chat room by one of the nazirators; it's simple, if they don't like what you have to say you're done.
Here's the remedy; you too my friends can block people. Choose random females and block them too; in other words "shake the tree to create chaos to reestablish balance" There's none right now...
Good Luck
You're right Zhen274, that is rougher. I'm divorced myself but no kids. It was tough being a married man with a wife who didn't participate but being single and male is tougher than that. I have a friend who is also a nudist and the first thing people ask is if he and I are a couple. I do laugh at that but people have in their minds what you are without ever seeking the truth. Oh well, I have met some really nice people but I know I miss out on a lot of parties and get togethers because I'm male and single. I was just frustrated that night but I'll get over it.
Not all couples fee that way. We are one of the couples who enjoy single guys.
Glad to hear it, I've been single all my life.Love to be nude when I can.Sex does happen, from time to time.But not necessary to live free.Its a way of life, I love being free to be free.
I would suggest that you try contacting AANR (American Association of Nude Recreation) they may be able to direct you to resorts, groups, and clubs that accept single male nudist and/or allow them to visit their facilities. Belonging to an organization like AANR will help to get acceptance in some nudist venues. If anyone is in the Buffalo, NY area our non-landed AANR club Niagara Naturist accepts single males, single females, and couples in our membership after they meet with our membership committee during which we will discuss what our club is all about, and ask you what you are looking for, and why you want to join our club. If you decide to join we will do a local background check as well as we will have AANR check for any problems you may have had at any other nudist venue. Provided that you clear the back ground checks, and the membership committee is satisfied that you are a nudist and are not looking for anything more than being able to participate in the nudist lifestyle with other nudist, you will be allowed to join our club. If after you become a member your intentions or actions show you are looking for something else, you will be asked to leave our club and not return. For further information on our club check out our website niagaranaturist.org and/or email us at niagaranaturist.com
It's tough being a single nudist male. You are the first excluded from any list. Sucks. Everyone wants to hang with couples and females. Sorry to bitch, I'm just frustrated.
I know what you mean. I'm married and even though my wife is an enthusiastic nudist she couldn't always be with me on club day trips and camping. I was a single male for those days and it was tough to socialize. I just had to force myself to be more outgoing. Yes, its rough being branded, but work to overcome it. Ironically, at Glen Eden the biggest problem is married men screwing the girlfriends of single males. No one brands the married guys. They're the swingers and the pervs.