do you get hard sometime at other people house
Return to DiscussionsDoesn't sound like a Nudist thing......sounds more like a sexual swinger thing.
Sorry, nut I think you're wrong here. It sounds very much a nudist thing, and very much a new nudist thing.
Many people seem to have this problem to start with, but apparently it gets easier as the newness wears off.
I suppose that it depends on who you're with and their reactions. I can imagine for female friends especially, you getting an erection would be rather awkward, especially if your friends are textiles. If your friends are nudists too, they may have already experienced the problem themselves and moved on.
That's news to me. I have been to a lot of nudist venues and have yet to find one where sporting an erection is found acceptable.
I didn't say it was acceptable.
However, we are all human, and none of us are perfect. The way that the problem is handled is what matters.
The etiquette on a beach for example is to put a towel over yourself or lay on your tummy until the problem goes away.
Obviously if you're in company in a house you can't lay on your tummy, but I would hope that some solution could be found without people getting too uncomfortable.
Looking people in the face and concentrating on the conversation would hopefully prevent the problem from rising in the first place - and at the same time would make you a better conversationalist than many textiles :-)
Doesn't sound like a Nudist thing......sounds more like a sexual swinger thing.
Sorry, nut I think you're wrong here. It sounds very much a nudist thing, and very much a new nudist thing.
Many people seem to have this problem to start with, but apparently it gets easier as the newness wears off.
I suppose that it depends on who you're with and their reactions. I can imagine for female friends especially, you getting an erection would be rather awkward, especially if your friends are textiles. If your friends are nudists too, they may have already experienced the problem themselves and moved on.
Best answer on here since he specifically asked how to control it. Erections are natural, it's what you do withitafterwards that can be offensive...so claiming it's always sexual and always wrong is just plain ignorant.
]Most naturist locations available to the public frown on this. Most that I have been to make a request for erections to either be covered, or for the person to excuse themselves until the issue is taken care of.
If you are sitting in someone else's home and get an erection the last thing to do is stand up and excuse yourself. At least it can be concealed wile seated. And it will subside. I've been naked with other nudists many times in their homes or mine (come to think of it I've been naked in homes of textiles too - another story). And my penis responds to the situation. No sex, no erection. And the flipside works too.
And my penis responds to the situation. No sex, no erection. And the flipside works too.
I do think that this seems to be the case more often than not. In know I was worried about it, but thankfully it has never happened in a non-sexual situation
I think it is, indeed, a nudist thing in that it happens to all of us at one time or another. Depending on the situation and company we're in it's best to use discretion. If you're seated a towel is always a good option for covering up.
It's a darn shame we can't get a female's point of view on the subject.
This same topic is going on in another group at the moment (can't remember which)
It's only had one female reply so far, which basically said that having an erection isn't a problem, but how you deal with it is.
Personally, I'd just cross my legs until it goes away.
Standing up and walking out of the room probably iasn't the best action LOL