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We are a couple and have friends that we are naked with in our hot tub and sun room outside at our cabin at there cabin but my wife wont let us be naked in the main part of our house or in the bed room area .Although we do sleep nude as they do she insists we are dress in the dinning room living room and kitchen. Was wondering if any one could give me some insite as to why this might be or how to change it.
Cooking and dining in house I think is more formal so maybe she looks at that as being the case and therefore requires people to be formally attired??? Possibly also hygiene reasons if cooking.As for the bedroom area, people walking around naked there is could be seen as a prelude to "sexual happenings". Maybe she thinks something "swingerish" is going to happen? Don't forget bedrooms are the usual place for sex occur and humans being naked is also usual for sex - if you put both in the sam seee context, it increases the likelihood of it happening.Have you spoken to her about how she feels? Maybe shed advice will tryjust needs some reassurance?Just my opinion anyway. and
Drzac Thanks good advice will speak to her and see if we can come to a solution
Have to agree with what another member said. Maybe she see's in the home as a more sexual thing but then again hot tubs are popular for other activities as well. Have you tried asking her to explain her feelings towards it ?We've lived in a house for years where we could spend days nude indoors and out and now we've moved we are stuck to indoors and need the curtains closed. We've only been here a few months and it's a struggle to enjoy being nude and remembering to close all the curtains first. On the plus side a woman in the large bedsit house across has the room facing us and has her curtains open day and night and doesn't seem to bother about being seen. Nudism is going to become more of a holiday thing for us or late evenings sadly
Funlovingnudes Thanks for your insites I am going tom speak to my wife about this and you could be right about the sexual thingJust going to be a little while till thing settle down in our lives just to busy at the moment for that conversation with a weddingof the SIL coming up and a new grand baby on the way .Anyway thanks