Men With Erectile Disfunction
A group for men to discuss their issue with Erectile Disfunction.
Living With A Limp Wee Wee
Return to DiscussionsHow do you deal with your ED? My answer is, not very well.How do you cope with being unable to sport an erection?
I'm not quite there, but seem to be going down that road. I can still get it up and have a solid erection, but not for very long. And I only get a good erection if I'm actively jerking or someone is kind enough to be sucking.
I do certainly miss being able to sport a boner.
I'm switching doctors again. My last doctor moved -- not a great distance but he was already quite a drive. Another five miles was motivation enough to find someone else. At any rate, going to bring it up with the new doctor.
I've tried Viagra and Cialis. Viagra gives me a splitting headache and Cialis sets off my Restless Legs Syndrome.
Cialis has helped me quite a bit. I also gave up coffee and that helped a bit too. I used to drink lots of coffee, but quitting brought my blood pressure down and my cock up a little.
I miss my younger stand straight up self, but a stiff one at any angle is nice.
I've tried to come to terms with my limp wee wee. Talked to it kindly. Looked for support with pharmaceuticals. Still he refuses to comply. The son of a bitch!! So I just shrug my shoulders and try a little bit of acceptance
Still, I would kill for a stiff one.
How do you deal with your ED? My answer is, not very well.How do you cope with being unable to sport an erection?
Gosh, Ive been impotent so long that Im so used to a limp wee wee! Mr Limpy ( as I call him) would freak out if he got hard!
How do you deal with your ED?
The penis poem by Willy Nelson:
My nookie days are over,
My pilot light is out.
What used to be my sex appeal,
Is now my water spout.
Time was when, on its own accord,
From my trousers it would spring.
But now Ive got a full time job,
To find the gosh darn thing.
It used to be embarrassing,
The way it would behave.
For every single morning,
It would stand and watch me shave.
Now as old age approaches,
It sure gives me the blues.
To see it hang its little head,
And watch me tie my shoes!!
Thank God we live in an age with Viagra. I find proper viagra and not generic works best and gives the least headaches but it is odd that sometimes they take 30 mins and other times an hour to kick in. I've found that any alcohol seems to make them not work at all . I often do half a pill for a good wank and it has helped reduce the headaches quite a lot. I suppose your body needs to get used to them
I suspect there is a genetic element to it and I'm sure things go slower with age too but diabetes is probably my main cause as I had no problems until my 40s. Hopefully you can get your diabetes under control. Mine is excellent but i think the issue will always be there. You just have to enjoy loads more foreplay and be a bottom hahah.
A few friends are on them too so its no big deal these days. Things might take a bit more time but that's not a bad thing!
I used to take Viagra to give my mate Willy an occasional boost when he was a bit shy. Later, following major surgery, Willy was unable to stand to attention on his own. I was prescribed Alprostadil to inject the little fella. That worked really well for a couple of years, the best erections I ever had and great staying power. Unfortunately those glory days came to an end, the injections just stopped working for some reason. So for the past couple of years my best friend looks sad, with his head held down. To add insult to injury, the old adage "use it or lose it" has become a reality for Willy. He was never the biggest chap, but he could put on a show when required. Willy doesn't get the same exercise and associated blood flow he used to, hence some shrinkage. If I wake up during the night needing a wee, Willy will sometimes be half awake, which is a nice experience. I do miss the glory days, but things could have been a lot worse for me. So it is what it is. I still regularly play with Willy and when I wank it's a "soft" wank, but still ending with an orgasm. I'm sure some guys see Willy and think he's not the biggest friend a guy could have and, in certain situations, wonder why he doesn't come out to play. But Willy and I can still have a good time, we just play differently to how we used to.
mine has been on the wane for many years, I started with cock rings that help keep the little fella up when he gets there but it didnt happen as often as I liked :) I was prescribed Sildenafil which helps a lot. But one thing I did notice when getting older that you have to focus, he wouldnt get hard because I felt horny I had to find the triggers that got him going... so with Sildenafil and cock rings I'm managing. Of course the other (dis)advantage is you dont need it so often! Well I dont, your experience may vary...