Tiny Essex
Return to DiscussionsMorning all,Looking to go public this year and very shy about it with what i have on show as you can see iam very small, has anyone been in the same position , looking for someone perhaps to lead the way :)
I don't think you have anything to worry about. When you are naked, everything about you will be noticed, but almost immediately accepted as who you are. People will look, but then form the impression of the whole, not itemize a specific part. I have noticed a pattern in my behavior. I noticed the face, record everything about it and "recognize" that as the face of the person. I would then give a quick glance at the rest of the person's body to get an overall impression. After that, it is almost exactly the same as being in a textile area.
You should go out, have fun and realize nobody will care about specific aspects of your body. They will only care that you are brave enough to join the fun.
Good luck,
Ben
Like Tiny Essex, I am new to this and have not make my public debut. I too am a bit nervous about it.
I get the whole confident and accepting thing and that others are not going to point and laugh, but there is still that gnawing anxiety or insecurity that I think we have all experienced at some point. Its real; maybe not justified, but real nonetheless.
I am soon to make the plunge. Maybe not in a big way, but still will be nude in front other people. I am making reservations at a clothing optional b&b that is within a comfortable distance from my home. Well see how it turns out. Ill either take to it like a duck to water or Ill be scarred for life... ok, maybe Im am a bit already.