Small penis embarrassment in locker room.
Return to DiscussionsI really want to be a nudist I am usually nude when I am alone however today I was in locker room and when I am wearing my swimsuit I take it out and wear it publicly but I noticed that my dick looks too small.
The other problem... Nobody is actually change it publicly:S
What should I do?
If I have even an average penis I will not care about others but I dont feel ok:(
Sorry for my english and thanks for advice already:)
all through my younger years I hated to shower at school, I was smaller than almost everyone. In the military I had no choice, but we got in got wet got out, you did not linger in the shower lest you be called gay. It took a trip to Orient beach in St. Maarten for me to have dozens of other men to compare myself to. I am shorter than most longer than some but I no longer care I have no problem being nude with nudist.
That is an excellent attitude. We have what we have so be proud of it.
i am from dhaka, bangladesh. man age 60, divorce, muslim, work as
general manager in a private company, I am involve in naturism under
member of International Naturist federation Belgium for 25 years back.
i and wife were the member but after she left me 8 years back I am
alone till dated. searching for like friend, nudist prefer, also as my
life partner. at gmail you will contact me ahashem20
she is my ex wife and when i made the membership she was with me. now she left me 8 years back from abdullah ahashem20@gmail.com , dhaka, bangladesh
abdullah hashem
I'm a former professional athlete meaning I've been in many a college and pro locker rooms . that being said I have seen few if any cocks smaller than mine in the locker room . it doesn't matter that doesn't measure you as a man. penis size only is what God gave you you can be a big man with a little penis. If you don't believe me look at my profile pics of of my wife of 35 years .....gorgeous
I agree completely with everything that you've said in your post. I was ridiculed as a young man and even as an adult I have been teased once in the men's room at the local Gay club! That did sting...okay it hurt but since I've embraced nudism I've found that all of my body image issues have improved. I'm finally comfortable in my own skin.
Over the last 10 years I've gone from a top weight of 388 lbs. right after my divorce from my ex wife to my current 260 lbs. Nothing like realizing I was miserable because of the unhappy marriage to help me lose. I've not made a concerted effort to lose the weight, which also made my little willie look all the smaller. Now my body issues are focused on the excess skin I have due to losing the weight. I guess what I'm trying to say is we are all our worst critics. The only other choice is being a narcissist. I'll take my insecurities over that any day.
We all need to learn to love who we are. I don't know of anyone that doesn't have insecurities about something. Nudism has helped me so very much to live a more fulfilled life. I have found the self acceptance I had lacked by forcing myself to expose the very things about my body I was most insecure about. I found acceptance from others and because of that I found acceptance of my own body. What an incredible gift that has been.
Cheers,
Steve