Married Men With Non Nude Wives
lots of men will understand this how do we make our wives understand us
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Going to resorts by myself
Return to DiscussionsI have approached my wife several times hoping she will try nudism and she refuses to even try it. Even when we are the only people around she refuses to go naked outside. If I go to a resort by myself. would I be a total shit or do you think it would be alright? I need your thoughts.
total shit not at all. i am in the same situation and have been going to
nudist camps by myself for eight years. my wife started out with me
then gave it up when she had some weight gain. never went back to
it but said i could continue because she knows i enjoy it. we both
have met some great people. the fact that she has seen the
lifestyle helps to know nothing sexual goes on. so if she knows go
and enjoy.
I have approached my wife several times hoping she willtry nudism and she refuses to even try it. Even when we are theonly people around she refuses to go naked outside. If I go to aresort by myself. would I be a total shit or do you think it wouldbe alright? I need your thoughts.
You are not a shit at all. I have the same issue with my wife.
My wife has now told me she thinks I should go to a nude resort and see how I like it. She doesn't want to join me but I think this summer when it warms up and will try it on a day trip. the problem ifs the closest one is 150 miles away. I do geet excited thinking about it but nervous also.
Wow it is good to know so many men have the same issue I have. Being in the military you run around the barracks naked with out problems. No one cares. I just do it in my office when on the computer the wife has issues with me just strolling thru the house. I desperately want to go to a totally nude area, Just to feel the freedom. But know that the wife would not go and have a fit if I went without her. I am 57 in good shape (yes got a few pounds) and don't mind showing it. Especially with my cock and ball rings swinging. LOL
I've had a break through of sorts with my wife. she and I are in the Florida Keys and have been naked almost the whole time here. The resort is not at all C/O but we have spent a couple of nights in the hot tub naked. Got caught one night by 8 spring breakers who saw my bare ass getting out of the tub. We found a nude beach nearby and she is working on her "all over tan". She is not into nudism. I go around the house naked as often as I can. She doesn't say anything anymore. She won't go to nude resorts. She doesn't like being around other people and certainly no one she knows while she is naked. I'm happy for the time I've had; but, I don't expect the regular nudism to continue at home. I'd love to go to a resort; but nude beaches will have to suffice for now. If I go anywhere on my own, she is suspicious and "doesn't know me". A very difficult situation. I would enjoy being naked with others almost anywhere. That makes her suspicious which adds to the drama. Have to say I've enjoyed this time this week, but I have no idea on how to proceed from here without busting up the 33 year marriage. I think the break through was for me; but, nothing she wants to practice on a regular basis. BTW - She is getting "ready" to go out, I am sitting in our conto naked sending this message. Best to all.
An update here! I am naked around the house almost daily. The wife doesn't say anything but never participates. Several weeks ago, she asked what I wanted to do for father's day. I said leave Friday, go to a nude resort and come home Sunday. She said, "I ain't doin that!" T
This week I tried again, but this time I announced I was going. She asked where, and I said it depended on whether you go with me or not. She asked if my friends knew of my nudity and I said some do and one belongs to a resort and goes with his wife. Silence.
I was then asked again, what do you want to do for your birthday. I responded I was planning on going to the nudist resorts. She said she wouldn't go and she didn't want me to go either. I said that was something I wanted to do and she said, "guess you have some choices to make". Trying to find some nude hiking for now, but the choice is going to have to be made and eventually, I will go.