Married Men With Non Nude Wives
lots of men will understand this how do we make our wives understand us
- created by peterde1
A really fantastic thing happened this weekend
Return to DiscussionsSo we have a ski condo in Vermont. Been going there for many years. For a long time I've been wandering nude around the backyard while she is out skiing. She doesn't know this. She's been tolerating my nudity in the house for a while but outdoors would be not a great thing for her to wrap her head around (or so I thought). I can't do any outdoor nudity down where I live in the flatlands as the houses are too close. But in the late spring up there, not many people come up and the backyard becomes relatively secluded so I grab my opportunity (as much as possible).
Well, we went up this weekend and of course there is no skiing as COVID has closed the mountain (still snow left). So of course in the morning while she is still sleeping I'm in the backyard enjoying the fantastic feeling of being nude outdoors. Then she got up, and I'm nude inside but I really want to go back outside. I'm torn about it. So I decide to step out into the screened porch in the back which is the buffered entrance/exit to the outdoors. She swings by and says "what are you doing?" I say "just sitting out here, nobody is around anyway" She seems to accept that and goes back to what she was doing.
So yesterday, I decide to push the envelope and step outside instead of just staying on the porch. I think I told her I was going to drink my coffee while wandering around in the backyard. She objected with "someone might see you" but I countered with "There's nobody up here" and she seemed to accept that. So I ended up going in and out many times, I even opened up the blinds so she could see me out there. I was more than pleased with her acceptance of that level of outdoor nudity, as I didn't think she would be able to handle it. Made me very happy.
Then in the afternoon I took it a step further. I grabbed her sneakers and walked over to her with them. She asked my why I was holding them. I said "could you possibly indulge me and come outside with me while I'm nude?" At first she asked why but I told her it would be enjoyable for me. So she agreed to it!! We both walked outside, me nude her clothed. It was such a fantastic breakthrough for me and I was so happy I wanted to shout. I have some pics that I grabbed off the securiy cam.
So I was walking on a cloud (still am) for her to participate to that extent. Yes she was clothed but she stood out there with me and walked around with me while I was nude. She's a gem for doing that.
The final piece to the puzzle was later on when we were inside. I fessed up to her that I've been doing that outside walk around up in Vermont for years while she's been away skiing or
asleep. She was somewhat surprised but she said "Well I know you like it so I'm ok with it" What a fantastic woman. What a great weekend.
That's great. It's those little steps that make a huge difference. This must be the week. My wife joined me on our patio while I was nude. I was tucked behind the bar; the only part that is fully screened from the neighbors, but we stayed there talking and enjoying our coffee.
That's great. It's those little steps that make a huge difference. This must be the week. My wife joined me on our patio while I was nude. I was tucked behind the bar; the only part that is fully screened from the neighbors, but we stayed there talking and enjoying our coffee.
Wow that's fantastic PC! Proud and happy for you.
That is great! I had to go through a half dozen women before I finally found one that, if nothing else, tolerates my nudity inside and in the back yard. Like most textiles, she thinks I'm the crazy one but I don't care as long as she is onboard with it.
I agree that is fantastic. I know the feeling because my wife recently began enjoying nudity with me in the house and on the farm. I have had a few guy friends from TN visit and she asked me if I mind if she joins us nude in the spa and now is nude along with us the whole time they are visiting. We are going to branch out to visiting a clothing optional facility this year. Great job keep explaining your personal views to her pertaining to nudity which will better help her understand your reasons.
I am also very fortunate. My wife is very tolerant of my desire to be nude as much as possible. Im naked inside most of the time and wander the backyard and trails behind the house naked. We work in the garden together me naked her clothed.
I agree that is fantastic. I know the feeling because my wife recently began enjoying nudity with me in the house and on the farm. I have had a few guy friends from TN visit and she asked me if I mind if she joins us nude in the spa and now is nude along with us the whole time they are visiting. We are going to branch out to visiting a clothing optional facility this year. Great job keep explaining your personal views to her pertaining to nudity which will better help her understand your reasons.
That's awesome so happy for you!
I am also very fortunate. My wife is very tolerant of my desire to be nude as much as possible. Im naked inside most of the time and wander the backyard and trails behind the house naked. We work in the garden together me naked her clothed.
That sounds great! I wish I had better property to be able to do that as my wife is also an avid gardener
That is great! I had to go through a half dozen women before I finally found one that, if nothing else, tolerates my nudity inside and in the back yard. Like most textiles, she thinks I'm the crazy one but I don't care as long as she is onboard with it.
Pretty much the same with me. We do have a difference of opinion about me being able to drive nude in our van, so I keep my shorts on when doing soo.