Male Bonding2
For those who like to explore the concept and dynamics of male bonding. Men are socialized in different ways in different societies, and so many men would like to have close male friendships, yet after spending time establishing a career, primary relationship and live in general, find themselves without close male friends. Many of us want male friends with whom we can share openly without...
Has anyone ever hooked up with another group member ?
Return to DiscussionsI have not met a member of THIS group, but have met another member of TN that lives not too far from me. We actually chatted a lot via e-mail, and got to know each other a little. Then we decided to meet so that he could show me how to get to some local hot springs.
The area is rather secluded, but heavily patrolled, being county property, so nudism there is not recommended. And being so new to this whole nudism word, I was not ready to do anything naked outdoors anyway--and expressed that thought to him. But we did have a chance to talk for quite a while as we soaked in the mineral hot springs.
Then after we were done soaking we went back among the rushes, out of view of the springs, to change into dry clothes. As I struggled and finally got my wet suit off, the other guy kinda chuckled and said, "Hey guess what.. You are NUDE in the OUTDOORS right now!" It took me moment to process what he had just said and thought.. oh yeah!, I am! Wow. The first time, ever, for me to be nude outside. I took a little time to dry off then got dressed. But I enjoyed feeling the warm sun on my body parts that normally never see the sun. It was a nice moment.
Hey fellow group members !! I would really like to know if anyone from this group has met up with another member. If so, how long wereyou both getting to know each other on line or however before meeting up ? Sean
As an update to my previous post: I can now say that, Yes, I have met another member of this group in person. He was going to be visiting my area for a work conference and staying in a hotel. We communicated back and forth through the TN messaging system prior to his arrival. It was probably about a week or two that we chatted before meeting. We were able to get together three times during the several days that he was here. Great naked times and lots of good conversation resulted in some quality male bonding.
I have met up with 6 or 8 guys form this site, not necessarily from this group. There are guys who are legit about wanting to meet up, you just have to sort though a lot of people to find them. I also meet up with overseas mates for nude cam chats here or on Skype. It's not quite as awesome as sharing in person but it's an acceptable second best especially when distance is a problem.
If you're reading this, hit me up with a message, let's have a nude cam chat and if you're local to me, meet up.
Same experience as others in terms of weeding through lots of "yeah, let's meet" and then crickets or excuses. Holding out hope for others as it only takes a few to shift that to a male bonding "quorum". :-)