Male Bonding2
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What was your first nude male bonding experience?
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My first nude male bonding experience was in high school (age 15-18). My high school buddy and I would hang out every half-day (when school would get out at noon instead of 3:00pm.
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We'd go to his house and swim in his parents pool nude. The first few time, we'd take off our bathing suits in the water and swim around nude. Then put them back on before we gout out of the pool. Then, as we got more comfortable with nudity and with each other, we'd just strip down and jump in. It was great.
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During the cold months, we'd hang out inside and watch tv naked at either of our houses (depending on whose parents weren't home). It got to be a standard thing for us, that on half days we would have nude hangout time.
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We were also in the high school chorus together and I remember one choral competition, we shared a hotel room with two other guys. He and I shared a bed and I remember he was nude under the covers. So I got nude too. Those are my first nude male bonding memories.
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What are yours?
Mine course we 12 10 stay over nite at friends house wed take bath together thought nothing of it
Wed touch each other. Id get hard on big deal later
on older friend wanted to see me naked i guess no
big deal i thought i striped got hard he took of his
clothes he played with me
I was 12. My buddy and I were watching his little brother while hisparents were gone for the night. We were laying in his twin bedunder the covers and his brother was jumping on top of us. He wasobviously not under the covers. Neither of us had shirts on,because it was super hot. So while his brother was jumping on us,my buddy pulled his little brothers shorts down. I assume becausehe knew he wasn't wearing underwear and wanted to embarrass him. Welaughed and his little brother said that his brother doesn't wearunderwear either. So then I laughed and then pulled his shorts downto embarrass him. Neither of them knew I was free balling too. Thenmy buddy was pissed and he pulled my shorts down too. My buddywasn't as developed as me and once he saw I was commando too, hepulled up the covers because he didn't want his little brother tosee my pubic hair. His little brother continues to jump on us. Allthree of us naked. During that time, while his little brother wasjumping on us, my buddy and I decided to explore each other'sbodies with touch. We both became erect and continued to touch eachother's erections. About a half hour before his parents came home,we put our clothes back on. Thenwhen they did come home,theyasked if I just wanted to spend the night and my buddyand I both looked at eachother and said, sure. Another hourlater, after eating some pizza, my buddy and i decided we would goup to his room to watch a movie. We both laid down in his bed, andjust kind of laughed. We put on a movie, are since we were in atwinbed, our bodies were touching. I looked at him and said,It was pretty comfortable being naked. Helaughedandsaid, Yea it was. So isaid, lets lock your door andstrip down again. He said ok. So we locked his door and strippedback down and laid in his bedcompletely naked. Again, since we were in a twin bed, our bodies were touching. So for the rest of the night, while watching the movie, we went on with our mutual touching and would switch off spooning. Both of us were erect the entire time. The nextmorning, we woke up, the front of our bodies touching each other and our arms around each other, and just laughed at eachother. We gotdressed and went downstairs for breakfast. We had one other sleepover like that the next weekend. Then afterthat, everyother sleepover was with our other friends. It was an amazingexperience.
So did the two of you get naked with the little brother again?
We had always been a bed/bath nudity household, and I did the usual gym-shower thing and began sleeping naked and skinny-dipping at 10 or so, but always privately. I became sexually active around 20. but that involved only the customary minimum of nudity. My first nude bonding experiences didn't begin until just after that, when after a couple of years of wearing underwear to bed in 4-man dorm rooms, I resumed my nude-in-my-room habits with a succession of friends and roommates.
I shared my first two-man room with a fellow from a very conservative religious background who was engaged in a series of rebellions - he was basically straight but had already tried street hustling; he saw casual nudity as another way to break with his background, and began to be naked a lot. He asked me to teach him to play cards - breaking another strong religious taboo, although I had to tell him that his church was mostly thinking of gambling games and all I could teach him was bridge. And he asked me if we could have sex, just because it was forbidden. We messed around inconclusively, until he figured he'd gone far enough and lost interest. He began to make a game of going naked into the school gardens at night, in which I joined him once or twice until he began to make a practice of jerking off there, at which point I dropped away. The last great taboo I did join him in breaking, in the school cafeteria, where he invited all his friends to sit with him as he ate a piece of meat - strictly forbidden by his now-abandoned religion.
My next roommate, in an off-campus coop house, was a mostly-gay woman, where I generally found myself the token naked man in a room sometimes rather full of naked and half-dressed women.
After that, with my own apartment at 21, I had two successive male roommates with whom I usually shared a bed, entirely without sexual activity, just appreciating the frankness and closeness. So I kind of crept up on nude male bonding from the far side.
I was probably 14 or so when a friend and me started fooling around with one another. I don't really remember how it all started - probably wrestling, etc. But I would go over to his house after school many, many times and we would lay on his bed naked exploring and playing with each other, jerking each other off, or just playing with ourselves laying next to each other. We occasionally went down on each other but not enough to orgasm. Neither one of us wanted that but just enough to make the other squirm with pleasure. This went on throughout high school till I left for college. We got together several years later but just to catch up. He had married, I was in the service. We never brought up the subject, and all was good.
I was 13 with two of my friends and neighbors I grew up with. We grew up in the country and there was this local river nearby.Our parents wouldn't let us swim in it because they thought it was too dangerous.One hot summer day we rode our bikes down to our river spot it was pretty secluded on a bend in the river. one of my friends says I wish we could go in for a swim] I just blurted out why not go in naked that way our clothes stay dry and our Parents won't be the wiser. They said you first so I strip down and start walking in the water it felt amazing and they look at each other and start taking their clothes off, when naked they jump in as well. We continued to skinny dip and our little group grew from 3 of us to as much as 8 of us at a given time all the way till college where everyone went their separate ways.
Over the years I have been nude with lots of people, but never experienced bonding of any sort. When I joined TN I was hoping for that, and very fortunately it happened. From the first time we met we were totally relaxed and trusting with each other. Truly amazing.