Male Bonding2
For those who like to explore the concept and dynamics of male bonding. Men are socialized in different ways in different societies, and so many men would like to have close male friendships, yet after spending time establishing a career, primary relationship and live in general, find themselves without close male friends. Many of us want male friends with whom we can share openly without...
- created by AZdesertman
What was your first nude male bonding experience?
Return to DiscussionsI was asked this question by a guy via private message and I thought it was a great thread topic.
My first nude male bonding experience was in high school (age 15-18). My high school buddy and I would hang out every half-day (when school would get out at noon instead of 3:00pm.
.
We'd go to his house and swim in his parents pool nude. The first few time, we'd take off our bathing suits in the water and swim around nude. Then put them back on before we gout out of the pool. Then, as we got more comfortable with nudity and with each other, we'd just strip down and jump in. It was great.
.
During the cold months, we'd hang out inside and watch tv naked at either of our houses (depending on whose parents weren't home). It got to be a standard thing for us, that on half days we would have nude hangout time.
.
We were also in the high school chorus together and I remember one choral competition, we shared a hotel room with two other guys. He and I shared a bed and I remember he was nude under the covers. So I got nude too. Those are my first nude male bonding memories.
.
What are yours?
My First naked bonding experience I think set a very specific tone for me on how I bond with my buddies. I think its the reason that I feel closer to a friend if we've hung out naked.
I started playing football my freshman year of High school. about a couple months in after we all had a bonded a bit on and off the field.... one of the guys suggested that we jerk off with out actually having an orgasm right before the game. He told us it would make us more aggressive on the field. So we all tried it, and won our first game. Sports people tend to be supersticious so every week we started doing that.
One weekend we planed out a sleep over after a game.. we were all riled up,
after and of course we did our first completed circle jerk. The coolest thing happened after....we all started opening up to each other.. teling each other stuff that we normaly wouldn't talk about.
Nothing ever phased us after that. We'd horse around in the showers pop wood and no one would get made fun of or anything we'd laugh and show off instead.
I thought it would all end when i played college football, but after swapping stories with all the guys turns out everyone had very similiar experiences with their football buddies. It wasn't until i started playing rugby that i really
understood what true bonding was all about...but thats a story for another post!Chris
great story, Wolverine! I can see where that level of openness and trust also contributed to the teamwork and support of each other too!!! And don't make us wait! Share the rugby story as well. I know my fraternity brothers who were rugby players would get naked at the drop of a hat anyway!
WOW! What absolutely great stories fellas! I too unfortunately, did NOT have any male bonding experiences like the ones I've been reading here in this thread. I do however appreciate all of the sharing that you guys have done! I've been fortunate to make some really cool friends here on TNand I'm hoping that one day real soon, I will have some male bonding experiences to share with you all! Until then, keep the experiences and stories coming fellas!
Two things happened around the same time. When I was around 15 a friend and I used to change into our bathing suits together. We did it most every day. And each time we would linger a little longer as we got naked. We eventually would sit and talk nude for a few minutes at a time before putting anything on. It had a sexual connotation for me but it was more initiated by him. There was no contact or anything overtly sexual or romantic. The other example is we had a tree house and several of us would get naked and show our naked bodies during sleep outs.. But then i experimented with being completely naked there to the point of climbing down the ladder and walking around under and around the treehouse. One day one friend and I went there alone and i told him that i liked getting naked there. We decided together to both do it. We made up some kind of game to choose what we had to do but it involved doing jumping jacks and climbing down completely naked and runing around and back up again. There was a sexually stimulating aspect to ir and we both were erect but there was no physical contact or sex talk. It was all about the nudity. I remember it as a beautiful bonding experience. I had others woth other guys over the next few years and through college but those were the first.
beautiful
I was asked this question by a guy via private message and I thought it was a great thread topic.My first nude male bonding experience was in high school (age 15-18). My high school buddy and I would hang out every half-day (when school would get out at noon instead of 3:00pm..We'd go to his house and swim in his parents pool nude. The first few time, we'd take off our bathing suits in the water and swim around nude. Then put them back on before we gout out of the pool. Then, as we got more comfortable with nudity and with each other, we'd just strip down and jump in. It was great..During the cold months, we'd hang out inside and watch tv naked at either of our houses (depending on whose parents weren't home). It got to be a standard thing for us, that on half days we would have nude hangout time..We were also in the high school chorus together and I remember one choral competition, we shared a hotel room with two other guys. He and I shared a bed and I remember he was nude under the covers. So I got nude too. Those are my first nude male bonding memories..What are yours?
I was asked this question by a guy via private message and I thought it was a great thread topic.My first nude male bonding experience was in high school (age 15-18). My high school buddy and I would hang out every half-day (when school would get out at noon instead of 3:00pm..We'd go to his house and swim in his parents pool nude. The first few time, we'd take off our bathing suits in the water and swim around nude. Then put them back on before we gout out of the pool. Then, as we got more comfortable with nudity and with each other, we'd just strip down and jump in. It was great..During the cold months, we'd hang out inside and watch tv naked at either of our houses (depending on whose parents weren't home). It got to be a standard thing for us, that on half days we would have nude hangout time..We were also in the high school chorus together and I remember one choral competition, we shared a hotel room with two other guys. He and I shared a bed and I remember he was nude under the covers. So I got nude too. Those are my first nude male bonding memories..What are yours?
My first experience was with my next door neighbour when we were both 13. We live in the country so would often go for bike rides to the local creek for a swim. We arrived one day and had a discussion and decided we'd go skinny dipping.
The best thing we ever did. Being around that age, we were both starting to grow pubic hair. So we checked each other out, talked about what was happening to our bodies and went swimming of course.
Further down the track, we started to compare our stiffies (his was much bigger than mine, and I can remember hoping like crazy that it would catch up to the same size). We even experienced ore cumming together too. We never masturbated together, but I temember talking about it once we started.
All I can say, it was great to have a friend to talk to, look at and help each other understand what was happening to our bodies. I think it's s healthy make trait to compare.
My first male bonding was with my neighbor around 12/13 yo. We started off going camping with each other as we lived in a rural area. We would skinny dip at the pond and stay nude most of the time we were there. We slept together and fondled each other from time to time. After about 3 weeks of camping during summer, as we were sitting around the campfire, 2 of our younger neighbors came sneaking up on us. No time to hiide, we just stayed naked and invited them to join us. Well they did and that began the best summer vacation ever.
Reading all these recollections of the first time, brings back floods of wonderful memories of my youth as well...
My first time was also with my childhood best friend, constant companion, schoolmate and neighbor for years, we were practically inseparable. We were driven by overwhelming curiosity which was satisfied by simply being naked together, but being city kids privacy was a bit difficult to come by. Camping trips, sleep overs and empty apartments when our parents were working, provided plenty of time to just be friends and chill.. naked. Lying side by side in a tent or just on the sofa. I remember the exchange of energy I felt as we shared the touch of bare skin on bare skin... a bond like no other and unmistakably strong. For me, that shared exchange never gets old, it just gets better and stronger.
Thank you all for sharing your stories.