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Penis Talk
Return to DiscussionsSo, what is the etiquette when naked regarding talking about your, or someone else's penis? This group has explored complimenting each other, but what about general penis talk.
I ask for a reason. A friend of mine says it is a no, no, because it can induce erections. Personally, I like showing and looking, and talking about the penis is part of that process for me.
Your thoughts.
Not something I talk about after "hello", but I think its a definite yes. Guys should talk about it, not only to complement but to learn about health as well. Male sexual health is very much in the dark and we should all be able to talk about it more. I know when I had a accident and my penis was hurt I was so scared to talk about it and didn't know where to with who, so i turned to google and found all sorts of nonsense.Basically nudists and naturists should loosen up, penis is a part of your body why not talk about it? As part as "it may include erections" whats wrong with that? I understand that they might not be appropriate all the time, but they are a natural part of being a man, they happen, deal with it. Doesn't mean you should react to it, but they happen and its normal.
yeah =).. i think the same i think it should be normal to talk about with friends not what i say at first if i meet friend but i think more guys should be open to talk about herself not only penis.. body too...
It's all about finding the appropriate moment, but blokes should discuss not only their penises, but other sexual health matters and things in general.. We are too shy about discussing personal things. Women don't seem to be nearly as hung up about talking about pretty intimate things.body{zoom:115%!important;}
I personally feel that the penis is just a normal body part that 50% of the earth's population has, so why not talk about penises? Only a small percentage of the human population is LGBT, so is still a majority of men (straight guys) out there that for some reason are scared shitless that talking about penises will turn them gay or something crazy like that.
On the other hand, you have to take general society at large into account, unfortunately they are not as open to talking about "private parts". Wonder where the name "private parts" came from. :P It is a crazy world we live in.
Great comments.
How do you guys feel about someone who is a self toucher. He unconsciously holds, or gently pulls or fiddles with his penis when talking to you. I don't have a problem with it, but someone else does and is getting ready to confront. I say, it is something guys do, and in fact, I have to remind myself not to adjust and hold.
I'm certainly not opposed to the topic if it came up in conversation; but, it has never come up in any conversations I've heard at the nudist resort I'm a member of for over 2 years now. I think in general, people may not bring up topics of 'private parts' out of respect or fear of others wondering about your motives. I can't say that I would just openly compliment a guys penis or bring attention to it either. How woild I feel if someone did that to me? It might make me more self-concious of the fact others might be judging size or some other socially negative reason. I know... I know.. thats the wrong way to look at it, but until I'm put in that situation, its hard to know anything better or different. And, I'd be afraid that commenting on another guys penis in any level of seriousness (aside from playfully joking around about it like guys do) might make him uncomfortable. I guess I look ahead to the worse case scenario first and decide how best to proceed. If there's a chance it might make someone uncomfortable, I probably won't do it.
Well said farmer Joe, I have a large farm and thousands of sheep and cattle so have seen many types of penis from the age of being in a pram until present, Also seen it being used and abuse, it is not much different to any other part of the body, except it feels better.
I have many mates who I bush walk with naked and socialise with but unlike you we do talk about our anatomy if the subject warrants conversation, eg circumcision, prostate matters and the like.
Humans are only advanced ( some times I wonder at this ) members of the animal kingdom and as such still have basic instincts to be free and uninhibited. So lets not pick on the penis, let if be like any other part of the body and enjoy it with out ongoing dramatic references, look at it and touch it but don't verbally offend it.