Male Bonding2
For those who like to explore the concept and dynamics of male bonding. Men are socialized in different ways in different societies, and so many men would like to have close male friendships, yet after spending time establishing a career, primary relationship and live in general, find themselves without close male friends. Many of us want male friends with whom we can share openly without...
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What was your first nude male bonding experience?
Return to DiscussionsI was asked this question by a guy via private message and I thought it was a great thread topic.
My first nude male bonding experience was in high school (age 15-18). My high school buddy and I would hang out every half-day (when school would get out at noon instead of 3:00pm.
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We'd go to his house and swim in his parents pool nude. The first few time, we'd take off our bathing suits in the water and swim around nude. Then put them back on before we gout out of the pool. Then, as we got more comfortable with nudity and with each other, we'd just strip down and jump in. It was great.
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During the cold months, we'd hang out inside and watch tv naked at either of our houses (depending on whose parents weren't home). It got to be a standard thing for us, that on half days we would have nude hangout time.
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We were also in the high school chorus together and I remember one choral competition, we shared a hotel room with two other guys. He and I shared a bed and I remember he was nude under the covers. So I got nude too. Those are my first nude male bonding memories.
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What are yours?
I think my earliest nude male bonding experiences were skinny dipping and hanging out while camping, etc. in Boy Scouts. Obviously that was before the homophobia started to build up....in society and in the scouts. During college it was some hanging out nude in the fraternity house....some playful wrestling around, showering together, etc.
Two things happened around the same time. When I was around 15 a friend and I used to change into our bathing suits together. We did it most every day. And each time we would linger a little longer as we got naked. We eventually would sit and talk nude for a few minutes at a time before putting anything on. It had a sexual connotation for me but it was more initiated by him. There was no contact or anything overtly sexual or romantic. The other example is we had a tree house and several of us would get naked and show our naked bodies during sleep outs.. But then i experimented with being completely naked there to the point of climbing down the ladder and walking around under and around the treehouse. One day one friend and I went there alone and i told him that i liked getting naked there. We decided together to both do it. We made up some kind of game to choose what we had to do but it involved doing jumping jacks and climbing down completely naked and runing around and back up again. There was a sexually stimulating aspect to it and we both were erect but there was no physical contact or sex talk. It was all about the nudity. I remember it as a beautiful bonding experience. I had other bonding experiences that included nudity with other guys over the next few years and through college but those were the first.
My earliest recollections of getting naked was with my backyard neighbor, we were both the same age..at the time @10/11. We would do these naked dares with each other, nothing sexual but I remember there was a kind of rush involved that made it fun and attractive. We would get naked in his yard, (it offered more privacy). I can just remember how great it felt getting naked outside. I think we did those dares one summer, after that we stopped and as we got older we never talked about it...I imagine at the time this was a way for two boys to explore and see our changing bodies and compare in a sense..I'm not sure what started it but it did plant the seeds for my attraction to nudity...looking back there was a nice sense of innocence involved, being naked with another person.
Two things happened around the same time. When I was around 15 a friend and I used to change into our bathing suits together. We did it most every day. And each time we would linger a little longer as we got naked. We eventually would sit and talk nude for a few minutes at a time before putting anything on. It had a sexual connotation for me but it was more initiated by him. There was no contact or anything overtly sexual or romantic. The other example is we had a tree house and several of us would get naked and show our naked bodies during sleep outs.. But then i experimented with being completely naked there to the point of climbing down the ladder and walking around under and around the treehouse. One day one friend and I went there alone and i told him that i liked getting naked there. We decided together to both do it. We made up some kind of game to choose what we had to do but it involved doing jumping jacks and climbing down completely naked and runing around and back up again. There was a sexually stimulating aspect to ir and we both were erect but there was no physical contact or sex talk. It was all about the nudity. I remember it as a beautiful bonding experience. I had others woth other guys over the next few years and through college but those were the first.
That sounds really exciting!!! Thanks for sharing.
I think my earliest nude male bonding experiences were skinny dipping and hanging out while camping, etc. in Boy Scouts. Obviously that was before the homophobia started to build up....in society and in the scouts. During college it was some hanging out nude in the fraternity house....some playful wrestling around, showering together, etc.
I feel like I probably missed out on the male frat bonding since I was never part of a fraternity.
Mine was at age 12. A kid two years older than me would sometimes watch me and my sister. He already hit puberty so he decided to show me what happens when everything down there matures. From there when he came over we would hang out in my room, ditch our shorts and briefs, watch tv, chat, and stroke. Wasnt romantic in any sense, no kissing anything like that. Just bonding.
Sounds fun!!! I would have enjoyed stroking with my buddy.
My earliest recollections of getting naked was with my backyard neighbor, we were both the same age..at the time @10/11. We would do these naked dares with each other, nothing sexual but I remember there was a kind of rush involved that made it fun and attractive. We would get naked in his yard, (it offered more privacy). I can just remember how great it felt getting naked outside. I think we did those dares one summer, after that we stopped and as we got older we never talked about it...I imagine at the time this was a way for two boys to explore and see our changing bodies and compare in a sense..I'm not sure what started it but it did plant the seeds for my attraction to nudity...looking back there was a nice sense of innocence involved, being naked with another person.
Those are the best experiences. Your bodies feel super-charged with this amazing energy!!! I remember gettingso excited, I'd be shivering. I couldn't stop vibrating sometimes when I was naked with my buddy.
My earliest recollections of getting naked was with my backyard neighbor, we were both the same age..at the time @10/11. We would do these naked dares with each other, nothing sexual but I remember there was a kind of rush involved that made it fun and attractive. We would get naked in his yard, (it offered more privacy). I can just remember how great it felt getting naked outside. I think we did those dares one summer, after that we stopped and as we got older we never talked about it...I imagine at the time this was a way for two boys to explore and see our changing bodies and compare in a sense..I'm not sure what started it but it did plant the seeds for my attraction to nudity...looking back there was a nice sense of innocence involved, being naked with another person.
Those are the best experiences. Your bodies feel super-charged with this amazing energy!!! I remember gettingso excited, I'd be shivering. I couldn't stop vibrating sometimes when I was naked with my buddy.It was definitely a rush...I really loved those times..
Awesome story about your orgasm with your friend nakedhiker1000. Got me rock hard
That's great! It's good to hear that. That friend Jim and I were really close. I still miss those days. I think one reason that bonding experience was so intense was that by 21 I had sadly learned to shield my feelings and control conversations about my thoughts and to especially control erections. I was uncomfortable and tense with nudity with friends and strangers.I was really uptight. It made it all the more powerful to be so unshielded and vulnerable in bed with Jim and nude. I really appreciate sharing this with you guys.