Male Bonding2
For those who like to explore the concept and dynamics of male bonding. Men are socialized in different ways in different societies, and so many men would like to have close male friendships, yet after spending time establishing a career, primary relationship and live in general, find themselves without close male friends. Many of us want male friends with whom we can share openly without...
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Do you kiss your male friends?
Return to DiscussionsYes, always a kiss hello and a kiss goodbye... but we don't swap spit with our friends. We do with sexual partners... Really deep soulful kissing gets me very aroused, so that's another level with me. It sounds like you guys are taking this farther than just a hetero friendship, which I personally think is Great!! Good Luck!
when I was still working, I retired from hospice nursing a year ago, my union steward who was and is straight, told me he always was "curious" about making it with a guy. I am very out as a gay man. I don't know if he ever found out what it would be like to have sex with another man, but he ALWAYS kissed me when he saw me, at work.
To answer your question, go ahead and experiment.
Depending upon much you enjoy kissing your friend and what happens afterwards, It may lead to other questions about your sexuality, and that's nothing to be afraid of. You may be more bisexual. Or pansexual.
I identify as g0y (g zero y). It is male bonding on the deepest level. We enjoy hugging, body contact, cock play, etc without the sex(no anal sex). It's not about a sexual attraction. We don't identify as gay. You might enjoy googling it.
Im going to be doing naked bonding this week and have thought about kissing my friend. We both idenoas straight but we're open to kissing (making out) during this. Does thay make it weird that two straight men are into making out with each other?
It's an interesting question, because you are actually asking two different questions?
In the title of the post, you ask if "you" kiss your male friends.
The answer to that question is no. I do not have any friends male or female where our relationship is close enough for kissing.
The second question. Is making out (kissing) weird.
No it isn't weird if your relationship is that close.
As for myself. In my younger years when I did have close relationships, where we were close enough to touch each other anywhere on each others bodies. Play with each other intimately. We never kissed. Probably a cultural thing, but I never was a kisser.