Male Bonding2
For those who like to explore the concept and dynamics of male bonding. Men are socialized in different ways in different societies, and so many men would like to have close male friendships, yet after spending time establishing a career, primary relationship and live in general, find themselves without close male friends. Many of us want male friends with whom we can share openly without...
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Knowing your friends' Bodies - A Type of Male Bonding?
Return to DiscussionsSo... Me and a couple of friends were talkin over beers the other day.and as you know.. some of guys.. need to get a little intoxicated to open up to each other ( or hang out naked of course ). So we're a littlebuzzed up over a few ales, and one of my buddies made a comment about how we've seen each other naked so much that we know each other's dicks better than our girlfriends and wives. I guess one of the wives was suprised that one of my buddies has a mole on the underside of his penis she neverknew about ....but all of us did.. i think we named it once..when we were drunk.Of course, i think it bothered her, as she made an off-hand comment about it being "a little gay" that we are that close. What do you guys think of this?Have you ever known a friend's body better than his mate.does this bond you closer? Whats your opinion over all?
I do regular massage-exchanges with a few of my friends. Since it is always full body and fully naked - both giver and receiver - we have plenty of opportunity to see and touch every squaremillimetre of each others bodies.We donot exactly do comparativeanalysis - but we knowthe secrets of each others bodies pretty well.
I feel like you do, when the right time comes, it will happen. I guess that I have the female species to thank for my awakening. For the most part, they're egocentric bitches. The reason that men are returning to man caves. Initially, I think that it was only symbolic, but today, some men have given the rest of us such a bad reputation, all we can do is regroup in 'man caves'. The pendulum swings both ways, and sooner or later the women will have to trust us, or turn to each other, until they realize that the men are the lessors of the two evils.
I do regular massage-exchanges with a few of my friends. Since it is always full body and fully naked - both giver and receiver - we have plenty of opportunity to see and touch every squaremillimetre of each others bodies.We donot exactly do comparativeanalysis - but we knowthe secrets of each others bodies pretty well.
I feel like you do, when the right time comes, it will happen. I guess that I have the female species to thank for my awakening. For the most part, they're egocentric bitches. The reason that men are returning to man caves. Initially, I think that it was only symbolic, but today, some men have given the rest of us such a bad reputation, all we can do is regroup in 'man caves'. The pendulum swings both ways, and sooner or later the women will have to trust us, or turn to each other, until they realize that the men are the lessors of the two evils.
I agree with all the above comments. The politically Correct in society are creating (have created) a repressed body of men (pun?) who are screwed up emotionally. And it is not gay or otherwise. we must get rid of labels, and let men be human!
This is a great thread and describes what I consider old school homosociality. We as men need each other, always have and always will. Others say otherwise so we can be afraid of one another and listen to the fear mongers instead. No need to give up our power, energy and appreciation for one another as men. No need for straight or gay jackets to limit ourselves to predefined concepts of prefixed sexuality. We are all sexual men together, and it is good.
Men who play team sports together often end up showering together, it's almost part of the ritual of team building. It used to be common in the Britain at least for football and rugby teams to share a communal bath after a game. I've probably seen most of my male friends naked at some time, and many of my co-workers as we all used the same gym at lunchtimes.
So... Me and a couple of friends were talkin over beers the other day.and as you know.. some of guys.. need to get a little intoxicated to open up to each other ( or hang out naked of course ). So we're a littlebuzzed up over a few ales, and one of my buddies made a comment about how we've seen each other naked so much that we know each other's dicks better than our girlfriends and wives. I guess one of the wives was suprised that one of my buddies has a mole on the underside of his penis she neverknew about ....but all of us did.. i think we named it once..when we were drunk.Of course, i think it bothered her, as she made an off-hand comment about it being "a little gay" that we are that close. What do you guys think of this?Have you ever known a friend's body better than his mate.does this bond you closer? Whats your opinion over all?
Going back to the original questions, I think your relationship with these men is pretty normal. Secondly, I think the wife of the man who has the mole has been caught. She didn't know her lover had a mole on his dick? Really? What does she do, lay back - open her legs and wait for sex to end??? I feel sorry for that man. Her opinion of it being "a little gay" is as irrelevant to me as apparently her lover's penis is to her.