Male Bonding2
For those who like to explore the concept and dynamics of male bonding. Men are socialized in different ways in different societies, and so many men would like to have close male friendships, yet after spending time establishing a career, primary relationship and live in general, find themselves without close male friends. Many of us want male friends with whom we can share openly without...
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mastrubation
Return to DiscussionsI'm leaning more towards being solo sexual these days...by choice. I find masturbation more fulfilling because I know exactly how to get myself off. I like oral but if it's not done properly, my cock responds negatively. And anal just doesn't do it for me any more. Nothing gets me blowing harder then watching a guy pleasure himself, knowing that he is getting off watching me do the same. I've enjoyed manybate and frot sessions both one on one and groups.
I have also found masturbation an important and fulfilling sexual outlet in the years since my wife''s loss of interest in sex. I have explored solo masturbation, mutual masturbation with like-minded friends and other variation, including on-cam masturbation and once even participated in a JO club event. All of these activities have been wonderfully gratifying experiences, and have helped me to experience masturbation without guilt. shame or embarrassment.
When I was a Catholic, I was made tofeel guilty and ashamed. After I got divorced many, many years ago, I was banished from participating in the services. After that my guilt slowly dissipated. Now my masturbation brings peace and calm into my life.
Nudism and sexuality are different things and they have nothing in common.
I don't agree. Human beings, whether they are nudists or textiles are (almost) all sexual. Nudists don't suddenly become asexual because they're nudists. I understand the push to separate nudism from forms of sexual expression and to make it appear 100% asexual. It's to dispel the unfortunately automatic assumption that anything naked is automatically 100% sexual and that all nudists are just perverts or sex addicts. Neither characterizations are accurate. In reality, nudists are normal every day people who go nude. They do heaps of non-sexual things nude like gardening and watching TV and ironing and feeding the dog, but they are also human beings and as such they are sexual. Clothed people talk about masturbation so why shouldn't nudists talk about masturbation? Clothed people express their sexual nature all the time so why shouldn't nudists express their sexual nature?
Nudism and sexuality are different things and they have nothing in common.
I don't agree. Human beings, whether they are nudists or textiles are (almost) all sexual. Nudists don't suddenly become asexual because they're nudists. I understand the push to separate nudism from forms of sexual expression and to make it appear 100% asexual. It's to dispel the unfortunately automatic assumption that anything naked is automatically 100% sexual and that all nudists are just perverts or sex addicts. Neither characterizations are accurate. In reality, nudists are normal every day people who go nude. They do heaps of non-sexual things nude like gardening and watching TV and ironing and feeding the dog, but they are also human beings and as such they are sexual. Clothed people talk about masturbation so why shouldn't nudists talk about masturbation? Clothed people express their sexual nature all the time so why shouldn't nudists express their sexual nature?
Agree with you.