Free Style Nudity
A group for those who want to be nude on their own terms - without the hassles and rules of organised and commercialised nudism and naturism. It is a forum for discussion and exchange of information, with the aim of allowing more people to "do it their own way".Photos are allowed so please add lots of them - they make for a lively group. For confidentiality I have set it so that only...
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Body confidence....
Return to DiscussionsOk I, Bill, am not very confident about my body... hense the reluctance to post many, if any pictures in the photos section of the group..... what I am wondering is , how?.... how do you guys have such confidence in your bodies? What enables you to feel so confident about yourselves? You all can be very confident by the way... Im just looking at this from a physchological viewpoint.
All comments welcome.
Ok I, Bill, am not very confident about my body... hense the reluctance to post many, if any pictures in the photos section of the group..... what I am wondering is , how?.... how do you guys have such confidence in your bodies? What enables you to feel so confident about yourselves? You all can be very confident by the way... Im just looking at this from a physchological viewpoint.All comments welcome.
Hello Bill - I really cannot see why you are so reticent - your profile photo looks very attractive! Your partner, also is a stunner! Might I suggest you post all your photos to the group photo page - free members, as most of us are, can only see five of them!
Pamela
When I first joined TN I was very tentative, just putting up one or two pics. Then I looked arround, seeing everyone else. I thought if I want to look at then, I should let them see me. I alsoThought that as a nudist I was about to let people see me naked face to face, so why not in photos. I also got lots of encouragement from other TN members. So then I started uploading more and more.
It's a pity so many are free members and can only see a few photos. I want you to see all mine, they run into 100's. There are pics of me indoors and outdoors and in places where I shouldn't be naked, smooth and hairy. Although my penis is small, my tummy large and my hair gray I am happy to show ithem allin most of the pics.
It isn't a matter of confidence - more a matter of nothing to hide. Maybe I'm a bit of an exhibitionist as I don't care who sees me naked.
It's a pity so many are free members and can only see a few photos. I want you to see all mine, that run into 100's. There are pics of me indoors and outdoors, smooth and hairy. Although my penis is small I am happy to show it in most of the pics.
Thanks for the reply, Olly. I think it would be very unwieldy to fill the photo page with your pics, but you could always create your own discussion board and gradually fill it up with your own photos.
I think that might be popular because, dare I say?, you are one of the great characters in this group!
Thanks for all your contributions - please don't go away, I think we all love you!
Pamela
Thanks Pamela. You will makeme big-headed (and maybe a bit bigger somewhere else, lol). But I doubt anyone really wants to be faced with masses of pics of me.
Dear Olly
They don't need to look. They can vote with their mice, if you would like to do it, just get on with it.
Pamela
Well, Bill, if you look at the photos in my profile you will see me for what I am, a guy closing in on 70 whose old muscles are now running to fat and whose equipment seems more interested in hiding than coming out to play. I have the confidence to post those and visit resorts because I am comfortable in that body. As I have clearly stated in my profile, I am happily married and monogamous. I am here, or there, to enjoy myself and long past the point of trying to impress others. That frees me from any pressure and allows me to simply enjoy my time here and time at resorts with my wife.
"Think that is the way the world is today especially in countries like England. How many males redicule women for having small breasts or anything else that doesnt fit the mould they want. I did worry being nude for the first time around others what people would think about the size of my cock but soon realised it doesnt matter what size or shape you are or what you look like.".....................One thing I have noticed from looking at the member pictures is there are very few who have breast implants. I do think natural is best but to those with enhanced breast. You are beautiful as well.My question to the ladies is do enhancements boost your confidence?
Ok I, Bill, am not very confident about my body... hense the reluctance to post many, if any pictures in the photos section of the group..... what I am wondering is , how?.... how do you guys have such confidence in your bodies? What enables you to feel so confident about yourselves? You all can be very confident by the way... Im just looking at this from a physchological viewpoint.All comments welcome.
Here is another topic I can relate to in a profound kinda way. I'm not a particularly big guy, not muscled up and trim as I'd like to be, about average or less in the genital department, don't tan very easily, etc., but I consider myself fairly confident about being naked...by myself or around others. I have issues that I think warranted some insecurities in my youth but age seems to bring about different understandings about life, living, loving, the pursuit of happiness, and most of all...learning to love yourself and being secure in your own skin. Being confident, I think, depends on your own personal outlook of life and what 'you believe' it should be. If you believe you have to always aspire to be and do what others think you should, you will probably always feel less than confident. As long as you believe that this life is here for you to enjoy and make the most of, while being considerate and respectful of others' rights to the same enjoyment, and pretty importantly not worrying about what other people are thinking in their own minds, it is my belief that you will become very confident about your body and who you are.
I took a look Bill of SnappyArcers and You don't look at all bad. Better figure (and better hung) than myself. Surely your attractive wife tells you so. A while back I did life drawing where the artist studies the nude model in every detail. What made it interesting is that the models came in all shapes and sizes - real people not glossy magazine cut-outs. The same applies to nudists. Visit any popular nude beach and see how varied we all are. Nobody cares that they are fat or floppy or light skinned. You'd be amongst the best 25%. It's not that we're confident. Its more that we enjoy the freedom of nudity and wejust don't care!