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Happy Nude Year. How was your 2020 for nudism?
Return to DiscussionsI hope that 2021 proves to be better than last year for us all, though life is not going to get easier for some time to come yet. These are my reflections on a year that I'm pleased to see the back of and how it affected our life as nudists, with hopes for a better nude year to come.
Here in southern England we're in lockdown under the tightest restrictions our pathetic, single-policy government has set out. They won an election to 'get Brexit done' and were found out almost right away for not being competent at that, let alone the other issues we've had to contend with. As of 11 pm last night the UK is out of the European Union, the final formalities took place then, they even got Big Ben out of the mothballs its been in while repairs are taking place on the Elizabeth Tower (why, we're all supposedly at home?!!) Empty symbolism reigns here.
On the upside though we live on the coast, with nude beaches nearby, one that we can walk to, it is an hours walk either along a shingle beach(sand and rocks at low tide) or if the tide is high we can walk over the 500'/150m cliffs after a 20 min walk through town. Lockdown meant that we could go out for daily exercise, which on warm and sunny days we interpreted as going somewhere to be naked outside. It is a 25 min walk from the nearest parking spot, so previously we've seen very little presence of 'authorities' there, unless its Border Force looking for cross-English Channel/La Manche dinghies full of migrants or the coastguard, and it is not overlooked by settlement. There are very few access points down from the cliffs, we walk from the eastern point of town along the shore, after the first point we often walk nude, or to a path alongside a glen(local term for small seasonal stream) through ancient woods. The path was used by other types of smugglers, among others for hundreds of years - brandy, wine, wool etc and widened to the width of a small vehicle during the second world war to allow defence forces access to the coast to lay and maintain mines. The land behind the nudist beach is a country park, maintained by the local park for conservation and recreational purposes, its a rough track so its only used by quad bikes from the council and people on foot.
We didn't want to go to the main nudist beach as we expected there to be lots of people there. Between the town and the main nudist beach there are some low raised areas created by old cliff falls, they are 5-10 m/ 15-30' above beach level. When the tide is in the beach is underwater but this raised area is fine. If the times were right we'd go in the morning and get cut off by the tide for several hours in our own little nudist paradise away from all the pain of the real world. During the last winter what had been a small pond had been infilled by fine shingle during a few of the big storms. I knew of this from a winter walk so I suggested that it would make an ideal spot for a few nudist friends to meet regularly, its large enough to be socially distanced. Public nudity is legal in the UK, provided it is just as genuine nudists would expect it to be. In practice very few people attempt to be nude in built-up areas aside from on WNBR type events.
I have worked throughout the year, from March when we first entered a state of lockdown I was going to work about 2 days a week and working from home as well. My hours vary and I have long swapped shifts with colleagues when I know the weather should be good so as I can go to nudist places. I rarely need to use video for work from home purposes so I work nude here, as we live nude year round unless its very cold. As I worked at home much more this meant that I was nude for much more of 2020 than other years. There are positives that can be gained from a crap year if other circumstances are in your favour!
It got warm here early last year and by mid-April I had the best all over tan that I've ever had at that time of year just from UK sun. We've often gone to warmer climes - Canary Isles etc over winter for a nudist break, but that didn't happen over the 2019-20 winter. We often saw other beach walkers pass below us but very few saw us, and far less walked along the level we were at. But we saw far more wildlife than we normally do at the busier main nudist beach, or indeed at the main town beaches. Nothing out of the usual, just more seals, peregrine falcons, egrets, grebes, foxes and many smaller birds that we didn't recognise, we're about 40 miles/60 kms from France and there were many recorded sightings of birds that don't come to England very often. Later in the summer we saw many huge shoals of mackerel or bass causing the sea to boil as they enjoyed feeding frenzies of smaller fish, the mackerel were in turn hunted down by dolphins, tuna and small whales. The next day the beach could be covered in places with a silvery sheen of dead whitebait, driven ashore by the larger hunters in the sea, nature is tough without Covid-19 type pandemics.
As the year went by we found more textile walkers passing us on the beach, then some were walking along at our level. They usually seemed very surprised to find a small group of nudists along their way, usually they'd come from the main nudist beach and were headed towards the town, they were usually holding a phone and obviously following a walk, but no small groups of nudists beyond the main nude beach had been expected from their maps. Some seemed intimidated by our nudity, sadly, we just carried on as we had been - chatting, sunbathing, reading etc. As I said before nudity is legal and we've all been going there for many years to be naked and were not going to stop because the pandemic had brought many more people out into the open spaces. A length of coast of about 4 miles/6 kms has historically had nude people on, not just what was the officially recognised nudist beach. The local council withdrew support some time ago when the health and safety aspects of maintaining access were reviewed in financial terms. Local nudists have maintained the access path for about 20 years. So we're well used to textile beach walkers passing us along that bit of coast, often our nudity has no obvious influence on those textiles using the same beach. Both nudists and textiles peacefully co-existing in a clothing-optional environment. During the high summer season in the past we'd noticed large groups of textiles (maybe 20 or so) arriving from a caravan and camping site about 30 mins walk away. They often came no further than the end of the path down from the cliffs, they'd obviously come to see the nudists, a tourist attraction! This has put off shyer nudists but many long-time nudist users of the beach are not going to change where they go, over the years many textiles will have seen them nude, so a few more won't make a difference. We've often pointed out to the obvious new nudists that its much more peaceful if they walk for 10 mins or so along the beach, far fewer textiles who've come to gawk dare venture into the heart of the nudist population there.
We occasionally went to the main nudist beach if the high tides were such that access to our spot for the year was impossible, or we'd have had a walk home in the dark by the time the tide was low enough. There were more people there than we'd seen in recent years, both nude and clothed, but there was always space for us to find a spot safely distanced. Personally I missed the social nudism I enjoy there in other years. We've been going there long enough to know many of the regular nudist visitors, so its possible to spend a couple of hours wandering along the beach and stopping to chat with various friends. All done while completely naked, our belongings safely left with other friends, to me there is no better way to spend a sunny day than nude with friends like that.
Since we've lived here our social nudism has been mostly beach-based, we still visit nudist clubs and resorts but not like we used to when living in the big city we came here from. We've made a good circle of local nudist friends at the beach, with a few others at other local nude beaches. We usually attend nude swims in the winter months as a way to socialise naked when its cooler. We also do nude yoga and walk with organised nudist groups, one of the nude swims is very good at organising nude visits to galleries, gardens, restaurants etc. We'd been looking forward to a nude evening at a bowling alley which would have happened just after lockdown kicked in during the spring. We'd got used to spending time in winter socialising with friends in our homes for nude meals or watching films etc. Our social lives have become fairly nude focused, a long-term goal of ours has been to spend more time nude each year, both on our own at home and socially. We've managed that for quite a few years now. This year we have been nude much more than ever, mostly because of working at home, but we've been nude socially less. I have been nude at the beach more than for a number of years, but our social nudity overall has gone down a lot, swings and roundabouts during a very unusual( I hope!) year.
I think my nudist highlight of the year was a weeks stay at a nudist club. We usually have a few nudist holidays each year, ranging from long weekends at clubs to a couple of weeks at a nudist resort, we usually aim to remain nude throughout our stays, we love being naked fulltime among 50-several thousands of other nudists. We were blessed with the last full week of hot weather of the summer for our nude holiday, it was strange having to queue up for everything and to sit at separate tables all of the time, when normally we'll make a big effort to meet new people at nudist clubs, we'll never have too many naked friends! It was different this year but the week of permanent nudity was wonderful. It was nice for a change to be among just nudists. We love our local nude beaches and in other years its usually +95% nude at them. We didn't experience it ourselves but friends recounted stories of textiles telling them that it should not be allowed for people to be nude in public, the usual excuse of 'not in front of children'. We did pick up on a higher incidence of 'looks' when people stumbled on our small nudist haven at the beach. It didn't make us feel uncomfortable, but a wider acceptance of our choice to be nude would help, as we accept them in their clothes! But this is a very divided nation, as others are too, there are far bigger problems that we face collectively than the 'issue' of public nudity, our natural state to be in.
So, my 2020 was more naked than any year I've lived through, but I didn't spend as much time nude with friends as normal. If my working patterns revert to being at work more I cannot see how I will continue my aim to be nude for longer each year. I could live with that provided we can get back to real social nudism, as I knew it prior to 2020.
How was 2020 for you other +50 nudists here? How do you hope 2021 will be for your nude life? We were lucky in that we live near to nudist places. If it helps those of you who don't have similar on your doorstep, we lived in cities for a long time where home nudism was all we enjoyed mostly, unless we travelled out of town.
Its good to hear your experiences of 2020, the pandemic and ideas on the future Andy. It comes across as a balanced and realistic way to have dealt with it all. So many people we've dealt with over the last year seem so unable to grasp the realities of it all, irrespective of whether they buy everything the 'authorities' tell us or not.
There are people we'd thought of as friends who make a big thing of wearing masks and using hand-sanitiser when they're being watched, yet they're in and out of others homes and vehicles without using any PPE at other times. The same people kept talking about the trips they'd make for winter sun, when anyone with a head out of the sand knew the trips were only going to happen if they made a thousand mile sea crossing by jet ski, because the trains and boats and planes were not going to be running, or borders may be shut(as they were here just before New Year). Its been a big reality check time, there are people we won't be making an effort to see, while on the other hand other friendships have strengthened, despite only seeing those people online, or through random crossings of paths in a supermarket carpark, or while getting daily exercise in the parks and woods or along the seafront. We had plans for trips abroad during 2020, none happened apart from going to Sicily in January, before we really knew anything about Covid-19, that seems so long ago now. We have no plans for any in the future, we'll wait until we all know where we stand. Even if the bulk of the worlds population gets vaccinated during 2021, those who refuse the vaccines will muddy the waters for where and how we can all move about the planet for some time to come in my view. For now we're not supposed to go outside of our local areas unless its for work or emergencies, yet many thousands do. Last spring when this country first went into lockdown the restrictions were not as severe but we were still asked to stay local. We're on the coast and have never seen so many people from out of town on the beaches here and in the surrounding countryside. Its great that people were enjoying the open spaces and getting back to nature, but the it felt like we lived in among the crowds normally associated with major shopping centres' Christmas rushes. A nearby town, Rye, attracts a lot of weekenders, the weekend before lockdown began it was full of people with wheelie suitcases who'd come by train from London, which had a very high incidence of Covid, they inevitably, and selfishly, brought it here so that the Covid-positive numbers rocketed within a week or two.
The divisions within this country(England), and indeed within the United Kingdom(?!) have intensified by huge degrees. There are some quite well-known satirists in Britain who go by the name 'Led by Donkeys'. It would help if the world actually had some leaders worthy of that the word 'leader', donkey is far more appropriate. Up until Friday the UK government was insisting that all schools go back after their Christmas break this coming week, then on Friday the Education Secretary (he was formerly Fireplace Salesman of the year circa 2006, or something similar) decreed that some places should not do so, how can parents cope with such short notice changes when they have to work etc? That example is echoed in all areas of national government here; u-turns follow u-turns until the resultant massive knot is impossible to unpick; so good decisions are always made too late, if at all. Its the economy stupid, never mind if plebs kick the bucket, that will help the pensions deficit. The divisions are exacerbated when members of the 'ruling elite' are revealed to have travelled without heeding any of the constrictions the rest of us are supposed to observe.
As for nudism, we can't contemplate any visits this year to any clubs until the big farewlll party the world holds for Covid-19, date TBA! We'll be using local beaches again mostly I suspect. In early December a nudist spa that we sometimes go to over winter to be naked with friends announced that it was re-opening with severly restricted numbers and facilities. I doubt that we'd have gone there this winter, but it felt like a small step towards normailty, the town where it is is also now in the highest tier of lockdown, so they are shut again. As in all other areas of life, work and leisure, what we can do as nudists may well be based more on the DIY approach in the future, as unfortunately I suspect that a good proportion of the nudist venues will go the same way as high street shops. We'll still be naked a lot, it will be nice to be nude with friends more than we were in 2020 rather than mostly on our own at home..
Y luego hubo silencio!
hahahaha... I guess unless we talk about erections, shaving, hair/no hair, wearing underwear and not wearing underwear... no one wants to contribute to real conversations. ;-)
I've taken up where I left off on 2020. On another site, a website friend challenged us all to be naked outside everyday for the entire year! It was an easy feat because of Covid but still, there were a few times where it was a little tricky for me to be naked outside but I managed to do it everyday in 2020. From Jan - Mar, we were either home, at our club or on the road in our RV or Jeep. Since I drive nude, when I needed to relieve myself out in the desert in route to nudist friend's home for a visit, I'd exit the car and be nude on the side of the road. Our club is obvious that we'd be naked everyday and when we visited other places that were textile, such as a campground or hotel, I had to be creative and do what I could to be naked outdoors. Usually it was late at night and I'd either retrieve something from the car or walk out on the balcony of the hotel room.
2021 is not different and since we've not been anywhere since the new year, been naked everyday outside here at home. I will continue to try and keep the challenge alive and well and naked outside everyday this year as well. It's gonna be tricky at the end of the month. We have a RV trip planned with close non nudist friends to a textile campground. We'll be there for 5 nights so I'll have to be creative again to accomplish that feat and continue the streak.
I certainly understand the need to get out and go somewhere. Being confined to your home and property can be nerve racking. The daily trip down to the mail box is heaven for Di. We're doing much more yard work than normal, just to get outside. The rollercoaster of restrictions, here in our state, have people going to neighboring states with less restrictions and then that state shuts down because of spikes in their Covid numbers. It's a vicious circle that many can't seem to see that they contribute to the very slow process to return to normal. We also have politicians telling their constituents to stay home, while they travel, not to wear masks and promote doing things that further the spread of the virus and keep us all in these restricted living conditions.
We're hoping to visit the Caribbean with good friends in a couple of years, once travel restrictions are lifted. We have appointments for our first dose of Covid vaccine at the end of the month. With so many naysayers about Covid and the vaccine, here in our city, it's funny how when we were alerted of the chance to get the vaccine, the website was overrun with appointment requests. We finally found a pharmacy in a city, 3 cities away, where we could get an appointment.
We're not naive and think once we're all vaccinated that life will return to normal but some assemblance would be a really nice change.
Ours has been close to normal; our workload did not change and our weekend trips may have slowed a bit. The work around the house was done nude when practical but became a little more tricky after the neighbor bush hogged (mowed) about 1.5 acres of my west side woods. Im waiting for it to grow back this spring. It may be even better. Our resort never closed for the regular visitor members...we just didnt get as close as usual but still managed some good visits during the year. Ive been able to get a little nude time the past few weeks as the temperature has reached the mid 60s... very doable with no wind and sunshine. Were not on the vaccine list yet as the doctor is waiting for more information. Other than a pending change to a pre-retirement 3 or 4 day work week...its about the same for us. Hope everyone else is making some small amount of headway.
I had some good nude experiences in 2020. Before everything shut down, I was able to visit a resort and a beach in other states. After the shut down, my membership at my local club came through. I visited the club quite a few times. I was finally able to play nude paddle ball. Looking forward to being able to go more often this year.
After a couple of events with the non-landed nudist group I am in, events vanished. We tried to set some up, but they were eventually cancelled. We did have 3 events late summer/early fall. I did not go to any of them since the hosts were running around without masks all of the time (if FB can be believed). :(
The good news is that my gf was willing to join me as a couple in the nudist group. She still does not go nude (we are a CO club), but it is progress.
With the exception of my wife and I enjoying our outdoor hot tub, in a nutshell, non-existent. Except for going for groceries at the least busy times an a couple of Doc visits we have been like hermits. Sucks. That's all there is to it.
Our club officially went to CO including the pool area. It does not settle with me so well but I will say more people are attending. I'm a knuckle head no question and never understood people insist on going to a nudist place or a nudist beach insisting on wearing clothes. In our case just the hint of perving your out the gate in a heart beat so that's not the issue. Very perplexing !
Our club officially went to CO including the pool area. It does not settle with me so well but I will say more people are attending. I'm a knuckle head no question and never understood people insist on going to a nudist place or a nudist beach insisting on wearing clothes. In our case just the hint of perving your out the gate in a heart beat so that's not the issue. Very perplexing !
Are they letting them in the pool without being nude too?
I agree with you. Why go to a nudist place if you don't want to be nude?