Don't mind others looking at my wife at all. What they see and what I see are two different things. All they see is her physical makeup. What I see is who she is, her heart and her soul, her outgoing and pleasant personality, her desire to be there for others and to help when she can. These are things that aren't dictated by the size of her butt or her chest, but rather from the heart that is wrapped inside of these external dimensions that make up her physical being.
So, they can look all they want, they'll never see who she is or what she gives of her heart and herself until they ignore the nipples, the waistline, the butt or her crotch. They will never see the same wonderful, beautiful person who she really is if all they want to do is to drool over the wrappings.
I and my wife are nudists. We spent some time nude at home or near the beach. I like when other guys look at her. It is normal or not?
Normal...I don't think that' something to be concerned about. Often "normal" is arbitrary and boring. The more important questions is whether she likes it or not. If she does, then sure, like it when other guys look. If she doesn't like it...well, I'd be rather upset by gawkers.
It's really a matter of whether she's an exhibitionist (to a degree) or not. If she is, no problem with the lookers, but keep in mind that people that are pure nudists will not appreciate overt exhibitionism.
I for one am proud of my wife. I would be upset if people were looking (proud, but upset) because I know she would not like being watched. I'm actually somewhat uncomfortable if I feel that I'm being watched. I don't mind being seen at all, but watched is different. I'd be able to get her to go to nude beaches if it were not for those gawkers, watching. So I'm not a fan of people "watching" her. I'd be proud, but perturbed as well because it would make her feel uncomfortable, which means I would not be bringing her. I pretty much wouldn't be going, because I want to go, but want her to be with me...but do not want her to be uncomfortable.
That's pretty much why I'm a "single male" on this site, even though I'm not single at all.
''... I like when other guys look
... I like my wife to be naked and guys to look at her
... I like guys looking at my wife
... I like when other guys and girls look at my wife too
... I would be proud for others seeing her gorgeous body''
Your wife is not a trophy that you can parade around like some sort
of achievement.
She's a person, not just a nude body. There's more to her than the
pleasure you get from her.
It's bad enough that the rest of society constantly objectifies
your wife, treating her less of a person.
It's worse when that same treatment is coming from you, her
husband.
If you don't get the point, you missed a very significant core aspect of
nudism.
''... I like when other guys look... I like my wife to be naked and guys to look at her... I like guys looking at my wife... I like when other guys and girls look at my wife too... I would be proud for others seeing her gorgeous body''Your wife is not a trophy that you can parade around like some sortof achievement.She's a person, not just a nude body. There's more to her than thepleasure you get from her.It's bad enough that the rest of society constantly objectifiesyour wife, treating her less of a person.It's worse when that same treatment is coming from you, herhusband.If you don't get the point, you missed a very significant core aspect ofnudism.
In total agreement
I don't think that any nudist minds if others look at all, just think that if your in a nudist venue then you should be nude too, same for resorts I don't think they should be clothing optional. Maybe a couple of hours to adjust if your new to the scene.
''... I like when other guys look... I like my wife to be naked and guys to look at her... I like guys looking at my wife... I like when other guys and girls look at my wife too... I would be proud for others seeing her gorgeous body''Your wife is not a trophy that you can parade around like some sortof achievement.She's a person, not just a nude body. There's more to her than thepleasure you get from her.It's bad enough that the rest of society constantly objectifiesyour wife, treating her less of a person.It's worse when that same treatment is coming from you, herhusband.If you don't get the point, you missed a very significant core aspect ofnudism.
Totally agree.
Most of these comments are one of the reasons my wife will probably never get naked in front of anyone but me, she doesn't want to be ogled and looked at sexually. I have been trying to convince her that nudism is not about sex but showing off your wife and liking it , well sounds like a sexual fetish to me. Put your woman on a pedestal, love and protect her, that is the right thing to do.
''... I like when other guys look... I like my wife to be naked and guys to look at her... I like guys looking at my wife... I like when other guys and girls look at my wife too... I would be proud for others seeing her gorgeous body''Your wife is not a trophy that you can parade around like some sortof achievement.She's a person, not just a nude body. There's more to her than thepleasure you get from her.It's bad enough that the rest of society constantly objectifiesyour wife, treating her less of a person.It's worse when that same treatment is coming from you, herhusband.If you don't get the point, you missed a very significant core aspect ofnudism.
Well said!
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