RE: Nude alone w/clothed wife
I certainly have empathy for those in this situation. It is a
blessing if the one not embracing the lifestyle can support the one
that does.
Though my 1st marriage wasn't one of open nudity the Ex grew to be
highly restrictive. Even the average textile home there is at least
some nudity in the bedroom area.
Me just sleeping nude got to be disgusting to her so of course that
ended. If I recall correctly there would be lengths of time I
wouldn't see her nude what so ever.
I am in same very sad situation. I am nude when she leaves and when
I can with friends, but she doesn't know about the friends. Nudity
outside in my yard and tanning at beach is huge issue that may end
our marriage of 33 years. I so much enjoy being naked, but she
has gone so far to call me a perv. Don't know how much longer I can
take this. I am into male bonding, make adornment, allover tans and
just the entire naked lifestyle...she hates it except for sex and
showering. I can feel how all the others feel. We'll see how much
longer this lasts as she found some naked pics of me st beach,
tanning in yard and wearing my rings. Could end very soon. I also
like being smooth, but she HATES it and is forcing me to stop
shaving. Whoa is me.
RE: Nude alone w/clothed wife I certainly haveempathy for those in this situation. It is a blessing if the onenot embracing the lifestyle can support the one that does.Though my 1st marriage wasn't one of open nudity the Ex grew to behighly restrictive. Even the average textile home there is at leastsome nudity in the bedroom area.Me just sleeping nude got to be disgusting to her so of course thatended. If I recall correctly there would be lengths of time Iwouldn't see her nude what so ever
This reminded meof a story about 15 years ago. We'd gotten up early
and showered and gotten dressed for what would be a very long
clothed day. We had to drive some distance to attend a wedding.
After a long drive, an entire morning, afternoon, evening of
wearing clothes for the festivities, we finally retired to our
hotel room and began stripping as we walked through the door. We
stood in the entry way of the hotel room, were both now completely
naked and I look at my wife and say ... "hey, I know you!" Her
reply ... "ahhhh, there you are!"
Yeah ... I know how lucky I am, but this wasn't the way it was in
the beginning. Although my wife was a willing participant in nudism
from the beginning of our marriage, there were some times when even
simple nudity needed to be a secret, shielded, hidden inside with
all the window coverings closed and doors locked. But then
she'd contradict herself by going outside naked with me at
night. She struggled with some inner demons for some
time.
It was a long road to get to where we are today but well worth it.
Lots of talks, even arguments about what she thought nudism meant
to me. At times it was my fault. Sending contradicting messages by
subscribing to Playboy, watching certain movies (not porn),
searching the web and viewing nudist pictures of nudist enjoying
nude recreation. This she saw as a form of porn and it took lots of
conversations but I almost had to force her to sit down and view
some of this stuff with me so she would understand that it wasn't
really porn. But ... I stopped the Playboy
subscription. Got rid of all the magazines I was
collecting. Toned down the movie watching and let her see
what I was looking at on the web.
When we have an issue arise, we talk about it and it's frank and
honest. There is no onethat I can talk to openly,
explain a feeling or concern, a fear, a desire, a need to other
than my wife. We have almost all of our discussions,
conversations and arguments while naked and we bare our souls to
one another while being bare together.
I think that's the way it should be. I only wish it was
that way for all of those that are having issues with a non
participating spouse. There are more important things to
worry about and deal with than simple, every daynudity
between husband and wife.
I am in same very sad situation. I am nude when sheleaves and when I can with friends, but she doesn't know about thefriends. Nudity outside in my yard and tanning at beach is hugeissue that may end our marriage of 33 years. I so much enjoy beingnaked, but she has gone so far to call me a perv. Don't know howmuch longer I can take this. I am into male bonding, makeadornment, allover tans and just the entire naked lifestyle...shehates it except for sex and showering. I can feel how all theothers feel. We'll see how much longer this lasts as she found somenaked pics of me st beach, tanning in yard and wearing my rings.Could end very soon. I also like being smooth, but she HATES it andis forcing me to stop shaving. Whoa is me.
I thought I was alone in this situation with having a clothed wife, while I love being naked in the home, in the garden, on the beach, and anywhere where I can mix with fellow nudists. My wife thinks old bodies should not be seen, and genitals should be covered at all times. I too love it when she is out of the home. Off come the clothes, and I feel free. She is going away soon to the UK, but it is me who will have a holiday of true nudist freedom.
Have any of you considered counseling? There are numerous issues couplesgo
to counseling for and I would think that if the situation is that
bad and there's is even a hint of divorce ... wouldn't counseling
be an alternative before divorce?
I guess the rebuttal from non participating wives would be; they
don't want anyone to know you run around naked at home. But, maybe
an outside professional could shed light on the fact that it's
neither wrong or disgusting but a normal way for loved ones to live
with one another.
I'm not sure, just throwing out some thoughts. ;-)
OK, I know that it's not my place to judge, and I'm going to try not to. BUT, first you have to judge her qualities, because they'd better be numerous, because she's not going to change. I was married twice; the first one tolerated me going to the sauna with friends. The second time we were over here, so it was not an issue. But if they haven't given an inch, they never will. I've learned from experience, that it's either time to let go, or agree to be miserable for the rest of your life. All-in-all, it's not worth it; I speak from experience.
Decide what what is best for you. She may say that she'll change, but even if she does, she won't be happy, and you'll both suffer for it.
You decide.
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