I'm not a perv
I am seriously considering giving up my pursuit of naked happiness,
I am a 58 year old married,straight guy who loves to sunbathe in the buff but where can I go besides the only "naturist" beach close to where I live, which is mobbed by pervs and weirdo's.
I have tried to join a couple of sun clubs, but was rejected because I was unaccompanied.
All I want to do is sunbathe, I'm not interested in dogging, swinging or swapping just sunbathing preferably with other like minded people.
A word to the wise would be appreciated
Thanks
I fully understand where you are coming from as many older (50+) naturists find that their partners are no longer interested in naturism if they ever were. I'm considerably older than you and hardly ever go nude anywhere these days. Married though effectively single guys just don't have many choices in they can't persuade their spouses to go along. Best of luck in your quest!
Think about ways to navigate your local beach without being undone by some of the habitues. If it's what you see that bothers you, then try to just let it go and do your own thing. Some better-connected nudists will put effort into policing such things, but you're not in a position to do that. If it's unwelcome approaches, consider how you situate yourself. Don't be off alone. Somebody like you - who's really, really, not on the beach to gawk or hook up, makes a pretty good neighbor for like-minded others.
Without knowing the specific problem, it's hard to give advice. But generally, I'd say take a beach chair, an umbrella, a small ice chest, a book to read, and just claim a few square feet of beach as your own. Then ignore the pervs and stay busy reading and going about your business (maybe even pop down to the water with your rod and reel). Basically, just make yourself look like a guy who belongs there, and a guy who won't be putting up with anybody's crap. (maybe a little sign next to your ice chest that says "No Pervs within 50 feet") lol! At the same time, watch for others who appear to be in your same boat, and speak when spoken to if approached by one of them. Hopefully, you'll begin to make a few friends and link up with some regular folks. It might take several trips though, so don't give up too soon. Just remember it's a public beach and sometimes putting up with the public is a pain in the butt. It'll be worth it in the long run though if you can establish some regular beach going friends. Good luck :-)
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