What is being Bi anyway
I said that I am Bi I have been with a men and a women. I like sex and better I like being a nudist. My wife and I said we should do a 3some MMF. So that was the first cock I suck 3 years ago. So that open the door for me being with guys. Can you only be str8 and gay?? I was told I was gay? I love getting my cock sucked by a guy we do it better. So if you have sex with a man your gay or if you don't your str8. Is bi just a nice way to say your gay?
I view sexuality like a see-saw. On one side is 100% straight. On the other side is 100% gay. In the very middle, at the pivot point, is bisexual. I think every one of us falls somewhere on that see-saw. I think I'm about 85% gay and 15% straight (if I had to quantify it). I much prefer men, but have had enjoyable sexual encounters with both men and women. I identify as "gay" because it's easier for most people to understand.
i say don't worry about labeling it. As I support monogamy if I'm in an active relationship with someone than I am only with them and I am in either a straight or a gay relationship. If I'm single quite frankly it's nobody's business who I go around with... well in general that's true. However, I consider it especially true because if you're going to discount me for a date, sex, a friendship, because I would identify as a sexual orientation other than what you're comfortable with, fuck you. At the same time it's none of your business... so maybe I won't just wear it on my sleeve. If I told you something like I hate recycling there are people who would shy away from me because I said that and it's important to them... but I don't make that big of a deal about it I just don't make an effort to sort paper and plastic into bins. And if you're some kind of hardcore pollution focuses individual who believes that the polar ice caps melting is all just the bias of the liberal media... or on the flip side recycle so hardcore that you have a compost pile and live with a bunch of unshaven hippies in the wood... but I still happen to enjoy your company, I'm not going to wear "sort of recycles when it's convenient" on my sleeve.
I say just be yourself, let the rest of it sort itself out
For a hookup, all I care about is that the guy is into me at the moment, and me into him. I'm a guy. Hairy and smelly. I belch and fart. Can't pretend to be a girlfriend. For a LTR, I'm hesitant with bi men. I'll never be the girl of his dreams.
KC
I am in love with the naked beautiful human body of either sex. I enjoy penile and anal pleasures. I enjoy giving and receiving these pleasures. (Vaginal can replace anal for those so equiped). If someone can pleasure me and I pleasure them, I'm not going to count X's and Y's. I guess that makes me bisexual. Now if there is a fork in the road, I can have either but not both at the moment, and its a small hike up the road; I'll take the chance on the male. I think the seesaw analogy is most appropo. Nearly no one is 100% either way. All penises are ticklish. All clitori are ticklish. Lets just have fun with whomever.Now that being said, I do feel that naturism or nudism is asexual! It is a pleasurable lifestyle that is not about sex. I will not deny my sexual side. But, I just love running around naked, working, and living naked. I don't cover up my mouth.But, that does not mean I'm always eating! You have to be at least partially nude to have sex. But, you don't have to have sex to be nude!Lilstones