Its all a comfort issue. Single women have no problem with a married man perving on them, because he is married.
It can be ridiculous. I've been on beaches before, and seen married, or "acceptable" men go so far as to inappropriately touch a female in their group, and its not issue. But dare I make eye contact or cast a friendly smile with this same female, in passing, and I'm labelled a perv.Only tothen become the subject to whispers and stares by that group.
As a married man with a non-nudist wife I find myself in a position where I don't care whether clubs accept unaccompanied men or not because my wife says she wouldn't like the idea of me joining one. Which is interesting because she says she has no problem with me being alone with other women and beaches are OK. I think it is the membership of the club she doesn't like the idea of. (I've never thought of asking) Anyway I've diverted off track. I'd be interested to know whether the clubs that don't accept single men actually have many single female members. Are these clubs at the limit of their membership or are they struggling to survive? Are single women more likely to be attracted to a club that only has married men as members? Is it the female members who don't want single men or is it the male members of the club? I'm just curious.
My assumption would be that it is the male members of the club who wish to see female-exclusivity. "Couples Only" comes with the inference that a female is present, and therefore, eye candy is present.
I work at a night club, and it is exactly the same thing. If you're a single male you have less of a chance of getting in than if you're with a female. And females pretty much get in free. The only difference is that the nightclub environment doesn't try to claim to be a, "non-sexual environment", whereas the alleged, "nudist" (more like swinger) community claims to be.
The few ( very few ) places I've been, same-sex couples are treated as two singles. A hetro couple, such as me and my sister, are treated as a couple. ( though the rules technically say we *should* be treated as two singles, since a sibling is not a "couple" )
For all of the complaining I see about single men not being allowed in nudist resorts, I cannot help but wonder aloud; why doesn't one of these guys open their very own resort and prove the viability of such a place? Put your money where your mouth is at! As topeople saying; "women or couplesonly" on their profiles, well...mine does not say that. I'm guessing that you need to look for the profiles of men, lesbian women and couples where the man is running the profile in order to find such a demand. By the way, men, women and couples, gay, bi or hetero, are welcome to be my friends just so long as they know how to correspond appropriately in this environmentand are not ashamed to show their faces here.
The few ( very few ) places I've been, same-sex couples are treated as two singles. A hetro couple, such as me and my sister, are treated as a couple. ( though the rules technically say we *should* be treated as two singles, since a sibling is not a "couple" )
Again, that is a matter of gender balance, Curt.
The few ( very few ) places I've been, same-sex couples are treated as two singles. A hetro couple, such as me and my sister, are treated as a couple. ( though the rules technically say we *should* be treated as two singles, since a sibling is not a "couple" )
I think the statement above goes for US, but not for most European countries. It's in fact discrimination to treat same-sex couples as two singles. We, me and my partner, have so far had no problem at any beach or resort or whatever when travelling in Europe at least.
The few ( very few ) places I've been, same-sex couples are treated as two singles. A hetro couple, such as me and my sister, are treated as a couple. ( though the rules technically say we *should* be treated as two singles, since a sibling is not a "couple" )
Again, that is a matter of gender balance, Curt.
Yes, I know.
As I've posted elsewhere, sometimes it begins to seem that I'm the only single male who has none of these "single male" problems.
I know the policy where I visit. ( I both read them and verbally ask ) I'm as friendly as I always am. No problem. ( yes, I was looked at hard the first visit or two, but why would there be an issue with that ? )
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