I have to agree with Nudiam.
if you like playing with cocks and are having oral, then you are no longer bi-curious.
You are not curious about anything anymore. You are enjoying sexual contact with a man.
I know I am no longer curious, I'm past that stage! Of course, it doesn't mean you (I) want some level of sex with every man I meet, any more than it does with every woman..... One thing I've discovered though, particularly as I get older, is that it is much easier to find a man who wants sex with you than a woman....
There is, of course, the issue of roles to be sorted out, but I know where I stand!
If you ask 10 men to describe their sexuality, you're likely to get 10 different answers, regardless of what label they identify with. There are lots of places along the spectrum from pure homo to hetero. I'm not sure anyone can be 100% gay or straight. I use the labels as an indication of roughly where on the spectrum the man is.
KC
I think the answer can be very simple. Bi-sexual means you enjoy having sex (in what ever way you want to dis robe it) with men and women. Bi-curious means you have been straight but are thinking you might enjoy a same sex sexual connection but have not tried it yet.
As a same gender loving man who's always known of his male attraction since puberty, I can't address the dual gender attraction aspect except to say that I've been briefly involved with men who are that way. As to the bi-curious issue, I thought that referred to a three-some with two genders involved. What do I know, right? LOL!
I consider myself bi curious - not bi sexual. I have played with other guys cocks and had some oral - but don't want anal at all. To me - Bi sexual is a guy who goes ALL the way with guys (as well as women). Curious is a half way stage.Other than that - how would you classify what I do. - I just like to wank - be wanked etc.
I just an article in Huffington Post about a scientific study on "bromance" among a pool of straight college males. 93% reported cuddling with their buddies and more reported having shared a bed with a guy.
Read about it here:https://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/05/01/straight-men-cuddle-guys-study_n_5241953.html
KC
Seems to me, sexual identity is less about who you have sex with and more about attraction.
Plenty of straight guys do gay porn because the money is better. That, to me, doesn't make them gay. Because they are attracted to women and they are just using a drug to stay hard during a shoot.
I identify as gay because I find men attractive, even though I've had sex with several women in my life.
I also do not understand the concept of bi-curious. Already I do not like classifications between procedures between men.
But curious about what? If the man is bi, that is he already had sex with other men, even temporarily. For me, there is homosexual relationship from the time when two people of the same sex play together with their sexual organs. So for a man, this can range from mutual masturbation to sodomy. So "curiosity" can be found at all stages that may lead to the discovery of the pleasures our bodies can get.
After reading the posts, I find it amusing the way, with one exception, that this curiosity would go heterosexual stage to homosexuality and not in the opposite direction. There is never any question of a gay would be curious to know what sex with a woman would bring him. Suggesting that gays are much more settled in their mode of sexuality than others.
Personally, I was married, and I could have being very happy if ....
But now I no longer plans to have sex with a woman. I know it would not bring me anything?
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