Flavor of nudism
Its recently when I got exposure to internet I learnt that one who loves to be nude is called as nudist, and thepracticeis called as nudism.But before i knew this I thought getting naked with your sex buddy, was always a part of sex, and getting naked for oneself was just feeling comfortable. As I always said I respected and had feeling for sex very much like nudism, which is natural and that keeps you happy and works antioxidant of life to keep you young. It happened that i had a distant girlfriend to stay with me for a week at Pune. she too loved open relationship. In a day we got well tuned up. initially for 2 days we had more sex than any thing else. later we just stayed nude, although we were cozy and comfortable, we had no sexual urges. but we loved the the partners presence. soon our life changed, we both loved to be nude together. we closed windows and stayed nude at home. with regularactivities. the feeling was more natural and we had more smiles of happiness.It was that time I discovered, that being natural nude makes the life more real, its despite of being sex buddies we had minimal required sex. but we always enjoyed the aroma of being naked. the spiritual feeling in the air. Sure nudism can be answer to lot of good things on earth. if the world is nudists. we human regain our lost happiness. Sometimes I feel we both should have agreed on marrying, our life would have been totally different.
Thanks sonnachand,
The purpose of sharing the incident was to make readers get nudism right. Just having a feeling inside to stay nude is not the essence of nudism. Nudism Is living with the nature,applyingthe rules of nature in day to day life, we people live the whole life with the thumb rules. I had been seeing here when one talks of nudism he sees sex as a crime, as its done by aliens.
I personally feel it would be good, if members finds there nudist partners here on this site itself.doesn'tmatter what their orientation is be it straight gay or bi.
We all have a hype about sex, yes true. everyone here want to prove he is true nudist by saying he is not into sex. But is that all nudism all about? I very much agree the sex starved men woulddefinitelymight hunt for it. but if the society was moreliberalto basic needs of human being (following nature's rule). we would have not had sexdeprivedpeople and had lesser sex crimes. we all would have been actually be very comfortable with our nude body. so be it a male or female.
When ever I tried discussing meet ( clubing together nudists) all jump for nudists meet at some place. And i got to here stories from people how people at last moment backout. ending with nothing.
Rather why we alldon'tfirst form a relation of faith. may be we give a friendly phonecalls. festival wishes. if local inviting for coffee hangout (textiled). later we can have home nudists meet. for those whose who's wife acceptedtheirhusband as nudist can get then for textile meet. further based on the comfort it can be like clothed female nude male. but this all is too far. we can never have this very easily. Iknownfew are lucky but most arestruggling.
Its always a fact that no one is very comfortable getting nude with other people at the begining. I too did have few nudists encounters, but Me too being a man was not easy to get nude. it was not possible unless i was comfortable with other side. Trust me, I was not open to get nude with my female friend ,despite we spoke on this cpl of times before.but there is a time to break the sonic barrier.
I would like to read your views on this. pls who ever reads contribute. we might end up with better world.
Right again. Freeness about nudity is very difficult to achieve in practice even if logically agreed upon in theory. So earlier textile meets and friendship and trust building is necessary in most cases, before actual nude meet.
And, sex is also natural. Though the true essence of nudism is normalcy and it does not equate with sex, most persons who have a curiosity about nudism or being nude except for sex, bath in the closet and during nature's call; initially have a sensual feeling, some degrees of sexual excitements and fantasies of either sexual or erotic natures involved with the feeling. Starting from there, their journey, if in the right path, leads them into the sense of freedom, normalcy and closeness, kinness, intimacy and friendship instead of erotic contact.
Then sex is normal. So, why is it a strict 'no-no' in nudism. To keep the purity of nudism. To keep the persons with other interests at bay. To keep a clean face of nudism towards the non-nudist world, thus increase the chance of its better acceptance or reduce the resistance to it.
I agree with Sonachand and naturelitelife, "freeness about nudity is very difficult to achieve in practice. So earlier textile meets and friendship and trust building is necessary in most cases, before actual nude meet". Sex is natural, and it all depends on wish.
well narrated soonachand and naturelitelife.....nudism shud start with the gentle breeze of frndship ,trust and honesty....we shud feel comfortable by sharing greetings and phone calls by far ones and may be a textile meet over a cup of tea by the near ones....the bond of frndship and fellow feeling mentality will go a miles apart whr whn in nudism the thoughts of sex or shyness will vanishes and will emerge a pure fragrance of joy and happiness despite of sex and orientation....thts the essence of nudism
Very interesting conversation here. For me, nudity is about feeling comfortable with one's self and one's body. For example, I am currently at a friend's beach house on my own. I wake up in the morning, and walk on the deck and shower naked. It feels so natural. I enjoy going to nude beaches, and talking to people there - I think shedding the facade of clothes means we can be more honest with each other. And yes, sometimes I do think think about sex when I see the other naked person at the beach - but again, it is being honest, and being natural. But more often than not, I don't think about sex. The human body in all of its shapes, sizes and colors is such a beautiful creation of God - I think it should be celebrated, and not hidden, nor something to be ashamed of.
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