Does it make me a perv?
I found that I enjoy to be nude outside and with others. I find this to be a sense of freedom and it is relaxing. Now for the questioning part, I find that secretly I am hoping that others are admiring my body and peeking. I don't go to nudists areas with the intent of anything sexual, just to sun with my wife, but the thoughts I get. I can't help it.
If you were wearing your favorite outfit on the street, would you be pleased when people noticed it? Would you look back at them and smile when they looked at you? If what you feel when you are outfitted in your own skin is like that, then no, you're not a perv.
If you were wearing your favorite outfit on the street, would you be pleased if someone parted their curtains just a bit to take a peek at it? That's gettin' there. Would you prefer it? You're there.
I found that I enjoy to be nude outside and with others. I find this to be a sense of freedom and it is relaxing. Now for the questioning part, I find that secretly I am hoping that others are admiring my body and peeking. I don't go to nudists areas with the intent of anything sexual, just to sun with my wife, but the thoughts I get. I can't help it.
Nudism isn't about seeing or being seen. However, glancing at new arrivals no matter what they are wearing or not is human nature.
Open your mind Soupie, my friend. Let go of the hatred. You can do it if you try.
Yes Soupie, go on I dare you. Although it would be very difficult, I know you could show people that there is still just a tiny bit of humanity left somewhere inside you. Give it a try, or are you really so afraid ofentering into the world ofnormality.
Pot, kettle, black. I know that you would hate to be called black or gay, but not everyone is going to agree with you. I've accepted that, and your attitude is much more about putting on your white hood to impress the other fellas.