Txag,
I am not saying that you never get in, but if you are not a regular, it takes time before you are accepted, I have had little issue in the chat, but have noticed this type of thing going on. It is not that people are intentionally being rude, it is just, as you said, going on so fast hard to get in there sometimes, or respond to people. Personally I am not much of a chatter, more of a poster lol. Probably because I am too long winded, and by the time I get it all typed out, they are on to new topic.
Just trying to say, once again, it takes a few to ruin it for others, and frankly when my wife has decided to try chatting, she had to turn off the PMs, so I do understand for sure. It is the reason she no longer wishes to chat on the site.
And most of the PMs were the same, typically from males (not sure if single or not) asking for private chat cam, barely saying hi.
I am a single male and have my first nude experience in 1976. I have been hassled many times by gay/bi males who are part Cpls wanting to swing. Also by the religious fanatics pushing their beliefs on others, which is totally wrong! Not all single males are pervs. There are more Cpls and females that are pervs than single males, they just can't admit it.
I cant agree with your view any more. Living in South Africa (which is labelled as a crime filled country becuase of a few) I am getting use to the idea of being labelled for nothing. Even single male - single male experience the issue of pervert. Further, I am single on here, but it does not mean that I am single - only my other half is not into being a nudist as much as I am. I have accepted this as reality. Quite sad though.
I know what you mean, as a single male I get the same feeling. It's because there has been too many instances of "single" males hitting on anything and everything. Most of those "single" males, in my opion are not single but attached and are "sneaking" around on their attachment.
Peacemale, following your logic, if 200 men and 10 women were in room and 50% wanted to say hi to 50% then half the ladies in the room would get slammed by 100 PMs. That would make almost anyone's computer lock up, have heard that complaint from ladies many times that theirs locked up due to too many PMs.
so fortuntely what ends up happening is that we mix it up .. some PM's , some chat room entries, this way neither "roadway" is at a crawl. If locking up continues to be a problem, then limit the room volume at say 50 or 100 members. Thats what AOL does.
I am sorry, I did not know you had access to my wifes or my account. I am very aware of the amount of PM's that are denied or ignored.
If you follow the thread, you'll see that I am referring to GUYS being PM'd, not Couples. Your experience of being bombarded has everything to do with the other guys thinking they might be talking to your wife, and zero to do with anyone hoping to be talking to you. Sorry to deflate your ego.
And if you must know, it is very clear who is who.
So, bug off and stop trying to get under my skin.
A previous poster made the comment that I didnt know what it is like to get bombarded with PM's. I replied that as a MALE , he didnt either. Thats where you jumped in (for some odd reason). That I was somehow wrong in my assertion. This coming from a couple ? And how, may I ask, would it be clear to the men trying to hit on your wife "who is who", unless you are on cam? Lastly, I am not trying to get under your skin. Ill leave that for the other petty morons that have in excess of 1,000 posts to their names.
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