sexuality and bromance

I've been thinking a lot about this. I always said that I was gay because I'm attracted to other men but for me it's more about the intimacy than just the sex. I don't even like anal sex. I just crave a close bond with a guy where we can be nahed together. cuddle. touch. kiss, take showers together and enjoy and explore our bodies with no shame. This is not something I can do with just any man. There has to be a physical and emotional connection. I get that for some men, that may be out of their comfort zone and I respect that but in the gay community, its hard to find a bromance. Everyone is all about top or bottom and how endowed you are. I am not even sure I'm gay really. I'm not attracted to women at all byt I don't have much in.common with most gay men. Any guys in the same boat?

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