Sex on the beach
In a previous ENL group, long deleted by mods, I had two topics about sex in public. Well, more exactly almost sex in public. The first one was about being heard. I am/was very multi and vocal. I am now more able to control my cries but at the beginning of my relation with D we lived in a city center flat, just above a sexshop in a building with very poor sound insulation. And you know... I just couldn't. I had to cry it out. Many times. Many, many times... I had a young Goth girl above me who hated my guts. She was doing drugs, often not alone, I was hearing bizarre, nonsexual cries often from her apartment but she was always tapping in her floor, calling me names and asking me to STFU. Near me there was an old couple. The lady always ignored me, but the gent was extremely nice, polite and smiling with me, always complimenting my looks and kissing my hand when we met. I think he didn't mind.
As for the senior owner of the sex shop, a guys who was always wearing a three+piece suit and a bow tie, we became very familiar once I started to visit his shop. He never mentioned my antics but he is likely the guy who, after D, saw me naked most often. Definitely in the posture of sexy-elegantly naked as he was always helping me to try out his most outrageous marchandise. He was extremely polite, always asking for permission and always making me compliments, including on very specific body parts, in a very poetic, elaborated way, reminiscent of the Biblic Chant of Chantice. You can't get angry with an older gent who does this... In fact the opposite is true, you start to like that and let him examine and praise whatever he wants... hint, hint... And no, I don't think he minded much hearing me having pleasure upstairs.
The second post was about being seen, but not from close up. We had a bay window in that apartment, we have on in the current one. It did happen a few times to forget to draw the curtain... it was also once, on a hotel balcony overlooking the sea 20 meters further. It was 3 in the morning and all was black and silent... Only once everything was over was I able to see in the darkness that there was a fisherman every ten meters on the beach and they had all watched the show in silence... And now they were lighting up cigarettes, commenting loudly and some even applauded...
But when I proposed to tell the story of sex in public in Cap d'Agde, I was advised not to. Whatever happens in cap stays in Cap...
Fine, but what about you? I think we have all occasionally had some risky sexual behaviour - doing some sex acts with the risk of being caught. Sex in a car seems to be is American as apple pie (which is actually British). Not a big fan myself, I have long limbs and it's not comfortable for more than the preliminaries... Sex on an empty beach? In a first? Some sweet preliminaries in a cab? In a public toilet? On a plane? Tell us your stories...
But this is only about risky sex. What about real sex in public? Did you do or see others doing nonchalantly sex in the presence of other people, like it happens in certain parts of Cap? Maybe on a wild beach? Maybe several couples sharing a bedroom during a student party? Maybe in a swingers' club? During a drunk party with friends?
And yes, I do know that this more of a TS topic, but I'm not on TS (except maybe, if absolutely necessary, as Flora's ghost) and I think that many of us could use some nice, teasing, sexy stories to cheer us up...
So guys and girls, do you have memories of risky or public sex to share with us? I do but will refrain...
Unfortunately I'm totally lacking in public or exhibitionist experiences, so I can't contribute, I think about this often though...I am/was very multi and vocal. I am now more able to control my cries but at the beginning of my relation with D we lived in a city center flat, just above a sexshop in a building with very poor sound insulation. And you know... I just couldn't. I had to cry it out. Many times. Many, many times...
... As one that's been on the receiving end of the volumetric sex exposure by various roommates, the screaming and moaning at the top of one's lungs always struck me as a bit performative? Such high-volume noises aren't made during masturbation, right? ... because that would just be ridiculous.
I have seen my fair share of couples cuddling and heavy-petting on the beach, oftentimes guys go into dunes surrounding the beach for fun with the lads, which is more something one would stumble upon by accident rather than seek out. I'm sure the possibility of exposure and attention heightens excitement but it never appealed to me personally beyond voyeurism or a spectacle as I was passing through.
Alas, my life history is unfortunately bereft of amazing and scintillating sex stories. However, that being said, I am NOT giving up on the possibility. I will be more than happy to interview potential participants. Thank you Flora for opening the door to what I believe is a fascinating topic.
Vanilla, this doesn't strike me like the most informed response ever.
I'll let you in some secrets about women's orgasms. No, moaning loudly is not performative at all. At least not for most of us. I'm not speaking here about crying at the top of one's lungs like in those stupid porn videos and we are all different but most, if not all of us make noise in those moments. I know this from many-many ladies who have made me such confessions. I did not enjoy many men but I am good at asking questions and most women I meet think that I am a very sexual person and somehow they get to confess in me very quickly. I am talking here about hundreds, not dozens of ladies. The last one was last Friday on a two-hour flight.
The reason for our loud expression of pleasure is simply that the intensity of our orgasms is orders of magnitude bigger than yours. It comes in burning waves and when they get to our chest they need to somehow get out. And this can last for minutes. Nothing to do with your small five-sec tingling. Some of us are also blessed with the capacity to have many orgasms. Really many. It all comes down from the first sexual phase of our evolution, that of promiscuity, like today's chimps. This was likely before we started to hide our oestrus and become sexually available 24/7. So when in oestrus, our best strategy was to be impregnated by many males and for this we needed to have strong orgasms which force us to call out for other potentially interested partners. Your best strategy was to be the only one who impregnates us so your have ridiculously high sex drive but laughable low-intensity orgasms so that you are incited to STFU when you ejaculate.
The second secret is that our orgasms differ very much in intensity. Tjey are not one-size-fits-all like yours. Some absolutely need to be cried out, some less so. I basically never masturbate, I prefer if you wish "human contact". I do it on video calls. Don't fantasize, that's with D when he is away. And when I am very aroused I can sometimes just squeeze my thighs... But all those differ and they depend on the quality of the arousal. So yes, most women moan loudly when they masturbate but those orgasms are usually far inferior to those obtained by a partner. There is the mechanics of it and there is the story in our head - the brain is indeed our largest sexual orgasms.
Yesterday we were in Sinsheim and there are those absolutely lovely water jets on the beds there... So naked, face down in D's arms, laying between his legs and caressed by his hands I had many.... many... many of them. And each time I had to cut them short because they were unbearably good and I felt like suffocating without being able to cry my joy out. It was a bit frustrating, I could only let them last for 10 or 15 sec, but they were so good. My lips were plump and red for having bitten them so hard and D's body is this morninbfull of black marks from having been squeezed so hard in my attemot to STFU. So yes, to a certain extent that was sex in public, our current topic, although unfortunately not the whole nine yards. On other occasions, I tried using those beds on my own. They do work, it's simple mechanics, but not to the same level of intensity.
So many things to speak on, one struggles to choose where to begin, what's in the middle and how to bring a happy end to it. But just like a good round of orgasmic pursuit, there is a direction of attack for the most heightened fulfillment -- meaning making the case for why we have ears.
The five senses are with us for good reason. Sound is one of my favorites in which to indulge; that's part of the reason my diverse music collection overflows our tiny home. I brought three new vinyl albums and six new cds home from the book sale last week and my sweetie rolled her eyes. What can I say, 400 albums just isn't enough! To blame the loving noises our ladies do make on the deep-seated desire to further broadcast our passion to other prospective suitors, in order to get the finest mix of genetic variation near our fertile eggs, I feel that scientific point is only a small part of what these sounds bring forth. Speaking to the gentlemen, the monkey part of the brain from our not so distant relatives should never be denied, but the pleasures of hearing a partner finalizing their orgasmic bliss brings on a heightened flow of our own genetic material, doesn't it? The louder they get, the better the spurts IMH experience! And I see no reason to propose that this is less than a two way street, my fellow nudians. Where is there any harm in letting the beautiful sounds of lovemaking be heard by your partner, much less by everyone within earshot, given only adult company in the general vicinity? It's been a pleasure to notice the neighbors in the next hotel room increase in their volume once they've begun to realize that the lack of adequate soundproofing between our bedrooms gives them a front row seat to the bounty of utterances coming from me and my lover's horizontal bopping! I love competition, don't you? Everyone wins, except the poor souls doing the hotel laundering the next day, forced to endure the less savory side of love, their senses of scent and sight and feel which will unfortunately assail them when stripping the bed, oh that's nasty ~
These sounds are natural and healthy, and unless you are unlucky enough to have only been involved with lovers who fake these noises (and if you can even tell that very important difference, example "When Harry Met Sally" restaurant scene), there is nothing but goodness in letting them sounds flow with full exuberance. Fuck yes - I'll have what she's having! And to suggest masturbation doesn't or shouldn't produce this aural additive, oh please! I'd have to say someone here may have lived too close to their parent's bedroom for too long to understand what they've been missing out on by keeping it quiet.
I never thought about the reason for being load other than it feels good. You know more oxygen and blood flowing better. But yeah the idea for more suitors, makes sense !
Oh yes we have been caught and have seen others. We have been nudists for a long time now. Its part of the experience, because people dont understand the difference between sex and being naked. But is that a bad thing really ?
There is a nude hiking area east of Phoenix Arizona USA. I have been out there many times and watched people or just heard them engaging in sexual activities. Many times I have stopped and watched them and enjoyed watching them ! The times I have heard people, they moved to a more private area so I didnt go and watch. Well they did go to be more private even though it was out in the open. But oh they or should I say she was very vocal at the point of orgasm. Very nice to hear that they had so much pleasure. But I didnt think that it was an invitation to engage with them. Hmm
As for us, well being on the beach for a month was not without enjoying those quiet days. So we would walk to a small canyon in the cliffs. There wasnt a lot of people on the beach during the week. After we played around at our spot on the beach we decided to take it to more of a private area. Well here we are, she is across a nice round bolder and I was behind her. Yes we were enjoying the feeling of being outside in nature. But we were a little surprised as a couple of guys walked past us. I think they were ok with us but oh was Marie embarrassed ! She covered her face with her hands ! Lol But I was already caught so why stop now. I am not sure if it increased our pleasure, because Marie wanted to stop. Lol but I was in the moment and I didnt want to stop. Was I loader? No ! Was Marie loader ? No !
As for regular times Marie was never very vocal. But I have learned that being louder does make things better. Plus people around me seem to enjoy it !
The wife and I have had sex publicly a few times. The first being in my car while parked right next to a police officer, I know he noticed the windows steaming up but he never came knocking lol. The second time was in the backset of my SUV while in a parking garage, it was later in the night as we had been at the bar with friends all evening and had gotten horned up and didn't make it back into our apartment before the fun began. The final time was on the beach in Hawaii. My wife was so nervous we would get caught, but it was night time and not a soul around but us. After we finished I went skinny dipping in the ocean. As for noises, I don't make many during the act of sex but when it's time for me unleash the inner animal comes alive and gets very vocal. Snarls, growls, guttural noises, what I can only explain as what I think Sasquatch would sound like orgasming lol. There have been times she has had to shove her hand into my mouth to muffle me because underage ears were in the next room over. My wife on the other hand is very vocal during sex, lots of moaning, groaning, those little high pitched squeals(they are the best), but none of that screaming at the top of her lungs nonsense like in porn. Hers sounds are very natural, very organic, definitely doesn't sound fake or forced.
Whilst on holiday in South Africa, saw sex on the beach many times at Sandy Bay outside Cape Town.
Same sex sex, and straight. Often very public with a good sized crowd of onlookers, occasionally a multi-partner sessions with a reasonably orderly queue ready to participate. Not that i joined the queue, pleasant way to pass the time though.
Seemed an enthusiastic and enjoyable time was had.
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You do like to tease us. Lol
Of course we want to hear your stories. But we had to say that we all have enjoyed life. Its just funny that we are nudists and exhibitionist and voyeurs.
But other time we were at a nudist resort and standing around a very large bonfire. A couple across the bonfire were starting to enjoy themselves. But Marie didnt want to watch ! But I told her to just not watch. But I wanted to stay around the fire and enjoy watching. Boy did I get in trouble that night. She was not happy about me! Oh well it still was a good night
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