Premature
Id like to throw something out there.
Like riding a bike when you choose lower or small gears you pedal faster, having a small penis you tend to thrust quicker due to the small shaft , therefore the head of the penis gets more stimulation, what I am asking here, are there guys out there that have a small penis and ejaculate prematurely ?
If you don't wish to respond on here but want to express your thoughts my email is nudistdownunder@hotmail.com
Just curious
As an experienced bottom, I've helped many "smaller" guys top for the first time. Most are unable to thrust enough to penetrate me deep enough to bring me pleasure because their penis keeps popping out. What I do is have them lay on their back, then facing them, I lower my hole on their hard penis. I use my kegel muscles to "squeeze" their penis while rocking my hips back and forth. In that position, their penis constantly presses against my prostate. I switch between rocking my hips slow and fast so I can help control their orgasm and help them to last longer before ejaculating.
I am straight and would not have any interest in what you are talking about. A woman top rider is awesome and what I prefer. I am average (not small) and have a crooked hardon but yes I admit having premature firsts. If nothing else then get your partner to get it out of the way (or fire off before going out) then wait for the next round which takes time. I understand there are exercises and know there are creams one can use to desensitize you. The creams kind of work since numb you, but you do lose the feeling which reduces your pleasure. Years ago I had a older woman that kept me going 6 rounds - always wanted to duplicate that if possible - of course with a woman. (sorry) I think the cream was called Maintain and really worked - but haven't seen it in years. I have raised on here before to get a group of men and women to meet live or maybe zoom (or other video medium) and have a shaving party. I'm ready and had a few interested. Love the smooth on myself and my women. And women that read, a premature first has nothing to do with a second and beyond which can be long and ultimate for both.
I am straight and would not have any interest in what you are talking about. A woman top rider is awesome and what I prefer. I am average (not small) and have a crooked hardon but yes I admit having premature firsts. If nothing else then get your partner to get it out of the way (or fire off before going out) then wait for the next round which takes time. I understand there are exercises and know there are creams one can use to desensitize you. The creams kind of work since numb you, but you do lose the feeling which reduces your pleasure. Years ago I had a older woman that kept me going 6 rounds - always wanted to duplicate that if possible - of course with a woman. (sorry) I think the cream was called Maintain and really worked - but haven't seen it in years. I have raised on here before to get a group of men and women to meet live or maybe zoom (or other video medium) and have a shaving party. I'm ready and had a few interested. Love the smooth on myself and my women. And women that read, a premature first has nothing to do with a second and beyond which can be long and ultimate for both.
Intersting idea. I have a small penis and ejaculate prematurely most of the time. I havn't always, but for the last 3-4 years. I would say the 2 things are not linked, firstly because speed of thrusting isn't necessarily linked to penis size (we've always been in the habit of going slow and steady) and secondly because premature ejaculation isnt always a sensitivity thing. My head has become less sensitive over the years since my circumcision, and the tightness of my wifes vagina dramatically changed by childbirth. We use condoms now for birth control (I'm having my balls snipped soon tho) which reduces feeling even more and even that doesn't help. I'd love to be able to blame being small but Pretty sure that's not it!!
i've only rode my bike nude a few times at camp but most have rode it down street or park and mostly commando in gym shorts and i've yet to shoot my load buti do have precum often . weather it's me pedaling or how my sac and penis sit on the seat with no support of briefs or jock strap i'm not sure . when i do wear some support under shorts or my jeans i seem to stay dry.
I'm happy for any other guys who have issues with premature ejaculation to reach out if they want to discuss and share experiences with me privately. It's not something I really get much of a chance to talk about although I know its a problem for many.
I do sometimes have that problem with my wife. If I can manage a minute of thrusting I am doing well. Being a quick trigger and being so small to start with leaves her usually unsatisfied. She usually encourages me to finish the job in other ways though....
At 4.5 erect Im small and have always had a quick trigger as well. Growing up I loathed myself for being small and when I became sexually active realized I had yet another hurdle to try and overcome being premature and so quick to cum. My best friends and I growing up (they were brothers) spent a lot of time experimenting sexually with one another and learning from eachother. When we all first started we all came really quickly no matter what we were doing. When we started sucking eachother they became more focused on enjoying the pleasure of being blown over the main goal being cumming. Unlike them Inalways went from 0 to 60 in seconds as soon as one of them engulfed my dick in their mouth. They started pulling out when they sensed being overly stimulated and took a few breaths and then plunged back in when they felt more in control and not about to cum. They learned how to control their stamina by stopping and going and eventually could just go longer and harder without getting to that close point for longer and longer. As soon as my dick got wet and warm in their mouth by brain went into overdrive and just came! Sure I learned a little stamina but never was able to fuck as fast as I liked it as long as I liked with out stopping and going over and over, sometimes only pumping 2 or three times before having to pause again.
Ive had partners that had big dicks medium dicks and small dicks and although most had pretty good control all of them at one time or another came before they wanted too and the premature guys I dated were all different sizes! I like your hypothesis but I dont think it holds much weights. Some guys just have a quick trigger and that all in your head/autonomic nervous system.
I actually like quick cummers! Once you get them to relax and learn to just enjoy the sensations and not worry about when they cum and just cum when their body wants to sex between eachother becomes so much more enjoyable!
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