My dilema
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My wife lost all interest in sex also. Before Covid I had several bi interactions. Covid scared me to stop, and now I want at least that guy to guy sexual experiences. Mostly mutual masturbation and oral... no anal... yet anyway.
Good luck to you and I wish you were my neighbor!
What you are going thru happens to a lot of guys, wives lose interest and then they explore their sexual desires to others, mostly men. How you approach this is best to take it nice and easy. Yes to jack one of is not the same but to just go wild and look like you're desperate to do it with any guy doesn't help. Unless your looking for a one night stand, it best to approach this looking for friends that will in time show interest in you in other ways. One of the best location to find guys open to fun activities is the gym. You will find some are there for more the working out but then again if you look at it making friends there you will find in time guys willing to explore fun activities. Besides you can be nude in locker room and that's an easy way to make observations of guys around.....