my experience is that some of the residents or members at resorts dont care to socialize with single males. keep trying.....i will say i went to a new resort last summer. it was mid week. quiet.
i met a nice lady at the pool. there was immediate chemistry between us. we went back to her residence. spent the evening making love.
When Nudony was single we would have had zero problem for him to stay over at our house. He's a good stand up guy and we know it.
Thanks RD, I appreciate that! :)Could it be that in most cases, it's not that single men aren't welcome but that couples and single women are just being cautious?
Personally, I don't really get the outrage. I think it's totally reasonable for couples to gravitate towards other couples. For one, they're going to have more in common. For two, husbands are going to be naturally protective of their spouses, and be more alert to their SO's response to single men. I totally understood that in my "lone nudist" days.
That might not always be the case, but a married man's eyes are less likely to be darting all over the place, if for no other reason that they don't want to disrespect their partner. I've seen it many times from single males, as my wife bent over to pick something up, or as she entered or exited the hot tub. And if I see a dude doing that, I'm going to be highly suspicious as to his true motives, plain and simple. And my wife is going to steer clear of that person from there on out. I get that for a single heterosexual male who isn't around female nudity very often, it might be challenging. But it's a challenge that has to be met if one expects to be accepted.
Is the level of expectation higher for single males? Yes; no question about it. But if they're consistently at the resort, are irreproachable in their behavior, then I think it's actually rare that they will be unable to connect with the nudist community.
I been one to walk around looking to talk to people and people walk away as if I am an orge. It doesnt feel too well. Its sad that a lifestyle built on acceptance still doesnt have that for people within its very lifestyle..
Comments like this always bother me. Just because everyone is nude doesnt automatically mean they want to be your friend.
You say you feel like you are treated like an ogre without considering how your actions are making others feel and simply pass the blame onto them.
I wondered if its not just that you are a solo man, maybe its the vibe you are giving off that makes people walk away.
I had a look at your profile, and at the groups you are interested in.
A bi-curios guy who belongs to at least 4 penis appreciation groups and many other sexual related groups might not be giving off the. Hi, Im one of the good ones, vibe.
Still, it must be everyone elses fault.
i will say i went to a new resort last summer. it was mid week. quiet.i met a nice lady at the pool. there was immediate chemistry between us. we went back to her residence. spent the evening making love.
This is exactly the kind of stuff that gives single men a bad name and makes most people groups women and venues get suspicious and inclined to think all single men are horn dogs.
I been one to walk around looking to talk to people and people walk away as if I am an orge. It doesnt feel too well. Its sad that a lifestyle built on acceptance still doesnt have that for people within its very lifestyle..Comments like this always bother me. Just because everyone is nude doesnt automatically mean they want to be your friend.
I would tend to agree with you on this but part of the fault likes with the segment of the nudist population that tries suggest nakedness is all that matter and that it is the great equalizer and the only interest that draws people together in a nudist/naturist context. It give newbies the wrong idea about how to connect
I find that leading with having other interests breaks down the stigma and opens up more authentic connections.based on shared interests not just a naked body.
But as long as naked is all that matters people rule the day the concerns and hesitations you raise will be valid.
homeclothesfree wrote:This is exactly the kind of stuff that gives single men a bad name and makes most people groups women and venues get suspicious and inclined to think all single men are horn dogs.
Well, if men read this and say, "Hey! I want some of that, and it looks like nudist resorts are the place to get it," then you're right.
But if this sort of thing happened at a clothed resort, nobody would bat an eye. In fact, some resorts cater to this sort of clientele. And, in those resorts, people make friends. And if there's "chemistry" between them, they act on it. I don't see why nudist resorts should be exempt from that, as long as the action is private and nobody else has to see it or participate in it.
A nudist resort isn't a hot bed of sexual activity. Nor is it a monastery. It's just a place where people do what they always do, except without clothes.
Woodsman you are correct that it could happen at a textile resort, but I think it would be even more unlikely a single man would meet a single lady at a textile resorts because they dont attract single people of either sex.
But we are to believe a man in his 60s goes to a naturist club, finds a single lady (how rare are those?)
Not only finds one, but finds one who thinks taking a guy in his 60s to bed would be an attractive idea
And that he could, make love all evening.
Im willing to put my money on they story being total BS and that the guy has never been to a naturist club in his life.
Im willing to put my money on they story being total BS and that the guy has never been to a naturist club in his life.
Well, you're both probably right that it was a fantasy. But I knew two people that met at a nudist event sponsored by an FKK group and got introduced to each other that way. They were both young, though.
This was fifty years ago, and I don't know if they're still a couple, because I lost track of them.
And I know of two other nudists who had known each other for a long time. One of them became a widow, but after a while, the guy (who was single) told her that he wanted a relationship. She agreed, and they became a couple for a while. But that again was a different situation, because they'd been friends for a long time.
So "chemistry" can still happen, even though it doesn't usually play out the way people fantasize.
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