Mine seems to want to keep on growing, unlike some other areas where the hair seems to get to be a certain length and then it stays almost static. I would say my underarm hair is on a once or twice a quarter maintenance schedule, and I use my second tier electric razor's sideburn trimmer to take it off. This trimming is to a very short length, not down to the skin, so I always have a little there. If I did nothing it would be poking out from under my arms and that doesn't appeal to me.
I have recently gotten to the point where I keep it shaved off. I will use a razor about every couple of weeks as it does not grow fast. I'll do it more often if I am going to be around others. I also shaved everything I could reach recently and continue to do so since my hair grows in very spotty.
I actually do shave pubs and armpits too.
I started to see how it looked. I liked it.
Also, in summer especially, less sweat, and definitely less odor. Not having pubs I do not have bad smelling anymore, underwear or not. So two reasons for doing it : feels and look better, way better in summer, not smelly anymore.
I do not think youre too much of minority. I had no girls (while dating) saying anything to me when they saw me. It has never changed a thing.
The idea is interesting but I've never tried. I'd want to pluck rather than shave to avoid any stubble, but haven't thought it worthwhile to push through the pain barrier. I probably should try at least once. Full commitment, though - once started I guess I'd have to finish both sides lest I leave myself assymetrical.
My wife routinely attacks hers with her electric epilator.
I've done it for many years. It cuts way down on odor as a few have said who replied here. I do not shave that just creates itchy stubble. I bought an epilator and its the best thing I've ever purchased to remove hair. Yes some places are way to sensitive to use it but for underarms and legs , nothing better, unless you can afford laser or electrolysis.