New rules for included group
As of today, this private group will be closed until further notice. This means that no one will be able to enter for an indefinite period of time. New applications for membership will be deleted immediately. There are various reasons for this, e.g. more members have violated group rules and have therefore been deleted immediately. Not everyone is so strict about the truth. There are single men who pretend to be a couple but only show photos of one man in the album. There is also the group of unemployed third-rate models who probably earn their living with love-scamming and romance-baiting. Many of them speak only minimal English. And then there are the so-called itinerant members who only look at what they can take with them. Lying seems to have somehow become a popular sport. But here, everyone has to drop their trousers if they want to join.
You have my entire sympathy in this.
Have you considered making it another certified only group, as well as being a private group?
The certification process is not foolproof but it does reduce the number of potential problem members.
It would reduce the burden if you were to appoint one or more trusted administrators.