I still don't quite understand the idea that nudism must be 100% nonsexual. I'm not saying we all need to jump into piles and fuck all the time but why is the only option to be totally neutered?
In the sense that nudism isn't about sex, then it's as non-sexual as any other everyday activity. Swimming is non-sexual, shopping is non-sexual, playing golf, driving, eating lunch, sunbathing... But at the same time, I don't think it should artificially exclude any sexual matter just because "we're nudists" - for example, if I'm with my hypothetical girlfriend, sunbathing on a beach, nude, I'm not going to deliberately go out of my way to avoid finding her attractive or not give her a kiss just because we're "being nudist". But again, that same logic would apply in any clothed situation too, I wouldn't stop finding her attractive because we're shopping and its wrong to think of her in "that way" while we're shopping. Similarly, if I meet a [subjectively] attractive woman whilst we're nude, I'm not going to somehow make myself not notice it because we're in a nudist environment, I'd notice, but it's how you react, which should be the same whether you're nude or not. Enjoying nudism isn't about sex or sexuality in itself, but I don't think there's a need to be over-sensitive about it either. Not sure that makes sense much as I write it, I hope you can see what I'm trying to say though.
I agree...it's SO NATURAL, at times. Last summer, I was chatting with another guy at a nudist resort, and before I realized it, I was dripping pre cum, and he said...."you must like looking at my cock"....to which I told him I did, as he too, had a nice shaved cock. He then asked me if he could touch mine, and I allowed him to, and I did his. The rest....is another story, but it's the first time I've ever just come out, and did that at a nudist club, with just another guy, and I must say, it was an enjoyable experience.
Sounds like fun!
So now 4 months from when this was first posted, the originator of this topic has gone from bi-curious to bisexual. So now he doesn't consider himself straight as he stated he was so his arousal as he stated in his post may have been more of himself not wanting to accept that he has, as he states now, interest in males. And as many guys go thru life, desires change for various reasons.
I've witness many times guys getting aroused and then others around get that way also but also sometimes guys get totally annoyed or even mad at those individuals. Nudity as many have stated, is sexuality charged but not for everyone. Going to a public nudity place does nothing for me sexually. It maybe that I'm nude a good deal of my time, that seen another nude body is that, a nude body. Yes, I've seen other guys get semi and almost erect in public (mostly at nude yoga glasses) but it take a lot more to get my 'fella' going. Would I let another guy 'touch' me in a public place? That would not be something I'd even respond to. And yes it has happen, more than I can count. I know been an uc male, does attract their attention but I don't give it a second thought when asked. I kindly respond that that kind of activity is not welcome in public and that I'm very flattered for the compliment. And then I leave.
I've had wife ask sometimes, why a guy would walk around with a boner? This is at nude beaches we've been to. She has eyes like I do. I really don't have a respond since I have no idea why someone would, I don't. I usually reply... well he's trying to impress someone I guess. She is like, "I don't get it"... "I agree" is my reply. We've walked the beach together and I do alone also, it has happen some guys sitting there get an erection as we approach, so I then have to think is it because of me, of her or us? I know when i walk around alone that it's only me the answer. Alone on the walk back I've actually stopped to talk to some, and in about 3/4 cases, guys does state that 'he liked what he saw'. Some go as far as stating, like to see your's in action or even can I touch it. Again seldom do I get semi or hard with the talk, I just wonder, is the sex they are satisfying their need?
I been in situations where a guy goes to showing his semi or hard, at resorts, or at gym saunas or showers where the other guy totally express his displeasure about it, some have even cus guy out and they leave. I've had some comment then something to that fact "guess he's not that type" or "what's his problem?". Do not take it that every guy is welcoming to seeing a penis hard or semi, there are places and times when those type of interest should be kept private and not subject to desires that are not welcome by all.
Why do you feel you have to explain it?
Not every sexual urge or erection is readily explainable. Sometimes it just happens. If you're worried about your sexual orientation, you should stop. I think it is more important to know who you are and what arouses you than to label yourself for the benefit of others.
Sexuality often isn't either/or. Don't assume your personal experience is universal.
You are correct. There is only one male sexuality: masculine. All the pronouns and labels help others define men, but we continue to adapt to our environment and evolve despite that.
YEA I LIKE LOOKING AT A HARD ON A MAN I WAS WALKING DOWN THE BEACH IN NAVARRA FL NUDE AND MET A COUPLE COMMING TOWARD ME THAT WERE NUDE SHE WAS HOT AND HE GOT HARD AND SO DID I.I WAS THINKING ABOUT WHAT IT WOULD BE LIKE TO GO DOWN ON BOTH OF THEM BUT I STILL WONDER HOW HIS HARD WOULD FEEL LIKE IN MY MOUTH.
Sexual identity and what we do sexually are not necessarily the same. Also, males are more visual and are often aroused by what they see. For example, straight porn which is generally not made for women. It's made for straight men, however, it's full of erect penises and cum shots. Do straight men just avoid looking at that and just at the women? If so why not just watch porn with women only? Men need to relax and know who they are and not be so afraid of being labelled weak because they like seeing an erect penis. Erections are a beautiful thing and a very important part of being male.
I do wonder about the term "bi curious". Is it a straight guy who wants to know about being bidexual or gay or a guy with the beginnings of being bisexual and wanting to know and experience more of a gay life. I think we men, as we get older, look for more varied and adventurous sex and move along the scale of Hetero to Homo towards the latter. If a nude man walks towards me with an erect cock my thoughts would turn to to what it would be like to have sex with him and so I would have an erection too.
My definition of Bi Curious is a straight man who wants sex with another man, and who has not tried it yet or has had sex with another man but does not want to admit it
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