I think it is a fair question. The prior posts by this person seem to be the main concern. It is a difficult situation to tell a new person in your life you are a nudist. In my case I thought she knew, now 30 years she says no she did not. Sooner the better if it starts to get serious.
First I asked a question what could affect other nudists other than just me and some members have tried to pull my profile to pieces when they know nothing about my case. So if it is the same lady who I have been in her property nude or, another lady who doesn't know about my nudity it doesn't matter. So don't think I will never have a lady in my life as some of you think will be the case.Yes I have spoken to her on the phone this evening (one of the reasons I haven't replied before) and she is happy to spend the day with me but due to work (she spends 3 to 4 nights away for work most weeks and she will never change this for a man) and going to Australia and to see her youngest sibling and 2 nephews in New Zealand for a month so it wont be for a little while.
This has left me more confused than ever.
Who is going to New Zealand?
Who do you go naked with?
Who were you talking to on the phone so long you could not respond here?
Who don't you know how to tell you are a nudist?
I think it probably depends on how you regard the importance of nudism is in your life. If you just get naked socially a few times a year at a beach and don't live naked at home, starting a relationship with someone who you don't know how they regard nudism is less likely to 'cramp your style' than if you've been used to living nude whenever possible.
I've lived nude at home year round for a long time with a nudist partner, she loves nudism at least as much as I do. We spend a lot of time nude socially too, the circle of friends who we spend most time with are all nudists and we tend to meetup where we can be naked. We have other textile friends we like to be with too, the closest ones know we'll be nude at home if they visit. But given the choice between socialising nude or clothed we tend to go for the nude option.
If I was single and looking for a new relationship I'm sure that I'd find socialising predominantly in clothing quite difficult to get used to. I am a nudist, for many years I have been able to spend at least half of my time nude, with a nudist partner, its never been enough, I want to live naked for a larger part of my life. I'd want to make this clear if a new relationship showed signs of taking off, rather than discover later on that she was not into nudism, for both our sakes.
First I asked a question what could affect other nudists other than just me and some members have tried to pull my profile to pieces when they know nothing about my case. So if it is the same lady who I have been in her property nude or, another lady who doesn't know about my nudity it doesn't matter. So don't think I will never have a lady in my life as some of you think will be the case.Yes I have spoken to her on the phone this evening (one of the reasons I haven't replied before) and she is happy to spend the day with me but due to work (she spends 3 to 4 nights away for work most weeks and she will never change this for a man) and going to Australia and to see her youngest sibling and 2 nephews in New Zealand for a month so it wont be for a little while.This has left me more confused than ever.Who is going to New Zealand?Who do you go naked with?Who were you talking to on the phone so long you could not respond here?Who don't you know how to tell you are a nudist?
Why won't you answer Phil's questions??
started seeing a lady and she asked me why my deck was enclosed and I said I like to sunbathe out there. but left it at that. one spring day she called and asked what I was doing and it said just sitting out on my deck.she said she might come over and I said call first. She did come over and came out on the deck and I was sunbathing naked. she wasn't shocked. I said I would put some clothes on and she said don't bother, I will get naked. We spent the rest of the day sunbathing naked and drinking margaritas. We spent that summer going to hot springs and skinny-dipping in lakes and rivers all summer.
I was dating a girl and she told me that she didn't like that I went to a nudist resort. That those people shouldn't see me naked only the person your with. Her friend that introduced us wanted to visit a nudist resort since it was on her bucket list. The friend wanted to go visit one with me but the girlfriend wouldn't go. She didn't mind me being naked in my apartment with her. So I guess you should tell them as soon as you get serious.
Maybe the friend is the one you should be dating. Did y'all go to the resort together? Seems like something y'all should think about if not.
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