Only One Nude in the Household
When you are the only one member of a household is nude, do the others just accept the fact or react in some way?
My wife doesn't practice nudity at home and seems to accept me being nude inside. Sometimes she reaches out and fondles my crotch or pinches my nipple, especially when she has had some wine. The only time, besides bath time, she gets naked at home is to soak in the hot tub and then she is wrapped in a towel until she gets into the tub. On the beach and up at our cabin in the woods she will go topless but never while at home in Florida.
What happens in your house?
This is something that I have struggled with for years. My wife simply does not understand why I prefer nudity . In the beginning she was completely against it ,10 or so years ago. After a couple years of me being nude only when she wasn't home she became okay with it. I thought great I'm comfortable and so is she. But that only lasted for about 4 years and then she told me it made her uncomfortable and could we please go back to the way it was. So here I am keeping the peace I suppose. Being nude isn't worth tossing 20+ years to me
My wife is very comfortable with herself being nude at the beach and local nude resort. Yet she doesn't go around either of our homes nude. She accepts me being nude darn near anywhere I decide to be. Another place she won't ever go nude is at a meal table. Weather it's at the resort or at a picnic table on the beach. I remember her father being a stickler for being properly dressed around the table. It's probably upbringing. Her sister is exactly the same way in her thought process. My wife feels a woman can't dress hurriedly in case of visitors at home.
My wife is a "casual nudity" type-gal. In other words she doesn't go out of her way to spend time naked at home; but if she happens to be naked while doing something she is comfortable with it. For example she might come out of the shower with just a towel over her head and go grab a cup of coffee nude in the morning. Just last night she was changing to go to bed, and halfway through changing she stopped to come talk to me and walked into the living room bottomless. She is naked or partially nude around me daily.
In order to have a more "regular" thing with nudity, we settled on "naked movie night" some time ago. At home that's the only time she actually "stays" fully naked.
I am not a hard and fast nudist so once I get dressed I tend to stay dressed until evening. That being said, I tend to remove my shoes, socks, and pants as soon as possible and live in my briefs and t-shirt. I sleep nude so I remain that way after an evening shower or soak in the hot tub and in the morning until I have to go out. If early enough and dark enough I will sneak out with the garbage or recycling while nude. My wife often calls me Naked Man but does not object to my nudity even if I don't get dressed at all that day. She too sleeps nude, but will get something on as soon as she rises on most days. Evenings are different. She will strip as soon as she gets home from work and stays that way until morning. Last night she said, "It's so good to be naked." I agreed and removed the briefs and t-shirt.
My wife is the dominant partner in our life and she usually keeps me nude at home regardless of who else may be present. At first newcomers often stop and wonder, but soon accept me as I am. And it is not like she is asking me to do something that I am not 100% willing to comply with!
My wife is the dominant partner in our life and she usually keeps me nude at home regardless of who else may be present. At first newcomers often stop and wonder, but soon accept me as I am. And it is not like she is asking me to do something that I am not 100% willing to comply with!
Is she often nude also?
I'm the only nudist in the household. When we started living together, my wife tolerated me having breakfast nude since I do so before showering but wasn't too thrilled about me staying nude after breakfast if I didn't shower right away. She had all these "what if" scenarios in her mind (what if a neighbour catches a glimpse of you and complains, etc...) and of course none of them (well most of them!) ever happened. I started extending my nude time after breakfast on weekends, and therefore started doing household chores and going about my life nude around the house. After a couple of years she stopped mentioning it and became totally fine with it. Now we have a hot tub and she will join me in the hot tub nude, but will take off her robe just before entering the tub and will put it back on immediately upon exiting it. So she is not a nudist but I can stay nude 24/7 at home if I want to/can!!
When we started living together, my wife tolerated me having breakfast nude since I do so before showering but wasn't too thrilled about me staying nude after breakfast if I didn't shower right away. After a couple of years she stopped mentioning it and became totally fine with it.
That takes me back to my initial "struggles" with nudity with my first wife. She initially wasn't thrilled at all with it; and would sometimes make derogatory comments about me being "weird" or some other adjective. So I reluctantly curbed my nudity to the evening, going naked late at night after showering. To keep the peace, so to speak.
Little by little, I started stretching out the time I spent nude; taking showers earlier in the evening or getting up in the morning before she did and making breakfast naked. And little by little she got more used to me being naked around her. Until one day she just gave me the "ok" to be naked at home. That took about a year.
A lot of guys throw in the towel when dealing with such a situation. I nearly did myself. But if you take a patient approach and negotiate boundaries, you might find that it's worth "sticking with it." When my wife fussed about me being naked in the beginning, I would have never imagined that 2 years later she'd agree to accompany me to a nudist resort. I'm glad I stuck with it.
Eve will be nude on hot summer days, when we are entertaining other nudists, and sometimes just to tease me. She is nude a lot when we are away from home, hiking, camping, boating, and the like. She has no issues with being seen by others. she will change out of her swimwear right in the parking lot with no problem.
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