Definition of bisexuality
Okay how do you feel like you should define this?
We all grow & learn. So as I am, I have seen many people who are very deceiving in their own sex. I now understand that they are actually male but they are not all that. They say they are feminine or not sure if they are still male or not. So male body parts then say they are females. This happens both ways.
or others who have some very interesting parts of their body.
So I figured I should just give you a heads up about the future of humanity and how it is different from the other people who are very normal like us.
Bisexual means 2. You are a man or woman who is a nudist that is very well worth it to me.
I am bi and very proud to love both of you without regard to gender, as long as you are male or female friends.
It sounds like you're talking about two things. Gender and Sexuality.
Sexuality and gender have moved away from the binary model where you're either male/female or straight/gay/bi. Gender and sexuality are way more complicated than that. It's now talked about as a spectrum. Further, some people experience sexual attraction and romantic attraction as separate things well.
Dan Savage uses a "three layer cake" metaphor. Basically, our sexuality is a three layer cake. The base layer is who you are fucking. The middle layer is who you wish you were fucking. The top layer is who you tell people you're fucking. So, for some people it's all one flavor. For example, a man in a relationship with a woman, who's only interested in women, who identifies as straight. That's easy. However, there are men who are married to women, who wish they could have sex with men, but they still identify (tell the world) they are straight. Their three layer cake isn't all one flavor. You can round up or down to whatever identity makes sense for you also. So, if you're a man who mainly has sex with women but every now and then there's a same-sex experience... well, you can still identify as straight. Point is, everyone can make their own determination which identity makes sense for them.
Bisexuality has also been expanded to include all flavors of sexuality/love. Some men are sexually bi, but only interested in a romantic relationship with women. Or they maybe they are romantically attracted to both men/women, but strongly favor relationships with women. Or whatever... and that can be rather fluid. We've been saying for a while now that women's sexuality can be pretty fluid. But, as it turns out, a lot of men are too. Societal bullshit sometimes suppresses that. But it seems pretty clear in these nudists circles that a lot of men later in life after 30-40 years of marriage start getting a little bi.
As for gender... I think you need to be very careful about how you describe your sexual preferences. Trans men/women are real, they are humans, they deserve every bit of dignity and respect as cis gender people. We are all entitled to our preferences, and no one should have sex with anyone they don't want to, for any reason. But, we also must interrogate our motives here... is this a preference or a phobia? This is not unlike race. We are all attracted to the things we are attracted to, but it's important to understand the difference between racism and sexual preference. Gender identity is the same way.
Allow me to repeat what I posted in another 'bi' group 'GLBT Nudists' two months ago:
"Bi does not mean half; it means both, like 'bi-focal' means two lenses combined. Being bisexual means having another skill-set, and not feeling confined to having sexual relationships with the opposite sex. Enjoy it!
It's really too bad that you can't see the other posts while you write a response.
Dave indicated that bi means both. So essentially 2. So if you look at 4 people and I am interested in "both" of them what would I mean? Exactly my point. That's why I am bi. If you don't understand what bi means, then you need to look at how many tires a "bi" cycle has.
Now Pansexual is more involved and matches more about your opinion on gender and fluidity.
We really need to define the various terms in order to be on the same page.
Define gender and gender identity
sex
trans (man, woman, sexual and gender)
MTF OR FTM
First off, I use gender and sex interchangeably. The gender is a man and the sex is a female, for instance.
then you get into the identity. You can be male but identify as female and vice versa. I believe that trans means just that. But if you are transexual, you have breasts and penis. As in a shemale. And of course MTF and FTM are the sex changers.
After we all can agree to the definition and context of the various terms, we will be able to continue.
Thanks Dave
I appreciate your response and I always say I may be correct if at least one other person agrees with me. I at least know that I am not crazy anyway.
That's why all those people who love clothes and say I'm crazy for hating clothes, I know that I am just fine in my way of thinking.
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