QUESTION ABOUT VIEWING NUDE WOMEN AT THE NUDE BEACH

How:

Viewing? By not singling out certain people, or certain body parts. Look at everyone - young and old, male and female, the same. Look at eyes, and hands, gait, facial expression, adornment. Linger on an image in memory, perhaps, but not in real time. Until you can really do that, you're not ready.

Compliments? Practice in line at the grocery store: Compliment this old guy on his smile, that heavyset woman on the color of her scarf, this kid on her backpack, that athlete on his strongly developed lower arm. Keep doing it until you are confident you'll get a smile in return, every time. Until you can really do that, you're not ready.

And if you're not ready, then you will come across as a fetishist, taking the part for the whole, and that will not be a welcome thing.

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Good advice Steve.

There is a thin line between appreciation and voyeurism. That line is drawn when the "object" of your appreciation become aware she is being "appreciated."

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I truly love looking at nude women for they are truly a work of Gods creation and I immerse in their loveliness of their breasts and their most beautiful hairy triangle and vaginas A womens' vagina is one of the most lovely creation on earth , I do not gawk so my question is how can i still take in their beauty and they feel comfortable with it ,do some women appreciate a compliment, Women are a true creation of our God I thankyou for all the lovely women out there

I can tell you from the women nudists/naturists I know that they catch it all. They don't respond to you because there were catcalls, wolfwhistles, men taking pictures, saying crude things, asking inane questions... I think on a busy beach if a woman is there, especially alone or with other women, she will have about 40-60 negative interactions with men.

I'm a gay man and even I get dirty looks because I don't really notice my eyes are at boob level because I was looking past her to the man with the good butt. Women are indeed magnificent works of art but if you really love them, you'll consider this. The nude beach is for being nude, not for voyeurism (I get that this is an ideal) and the last thing we want to do is to make these spaces less friendly to women.

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Of course totally agree. And why us guys venture to see them. Also explains whyss married the temptation is so great to explore.

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get a grip, Larry, we all love nude bodies even if it is just our own otherwise we wouldn't be social nudes. If you want to look at a woman's normally hidden bits then please don't go quoting some crap about the bible just man up and admit you like looking, there isn't anything wrong with it. We are naked we can see and be seen no big deal but if you spend the entire time gawping at the goods then you probs won't make many friends. Most women on nude beaches are not there because they want you to look at them, they did not go just so you can get your kicks. So if you want to sit and stare, want to see what all the fuss is about and explore then do it with those who do like to be looked at by you. Ask them if it is ok to look, try talking to people in the flesh not asking a site of mostly males how you can go see nude women, try finding a fem exhib, or having a relationship, check a swingers site and post what you want, there are plenty who like to just be looked at.I can't believe you posted this question on here, really! I wonder why women are shy of posting and most bugger off after a short membership, oh look I am a creation of God so I should be worshipped in all my glory. This is a nude site go look at profile pics, see the gallery, no issues, go to the beach and worship in the real world and don't complain when the goddess kicks you fully in the nuts. Women aren't some holy product for your pleasure they are simply people, so treat them as people and you might get what you are looking for.

This. I've had to physically escort two clothed males off the beach for TAKING PICTURES and grabbing their crotches and they were incensed...but she's beautiful. I was cavalier in my response in part to diffuse tension but you're spot on other human beings are not objects and while we can and should derive pleasure from all of our senses, looking is the one folks claim to not understand...yet, if you want to read the sign on the road, you read it. If you want to ignore what is written and just see the trees, you just see the trees. Everyone knows the difference between appreciating the whole space of ones being and counting hairs on a nipple.

Textiles are no better...the men whinging about #metoo and the "unfair persecution" and being caught out looking at breasts and how are they ever to know and not be looking at her chest...hint, she's talking her eyes are up top.

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