Nude and feeling inadequate..
I wasted too many years felling the same way. My first trip to a nude beach (Gunnison) cured me of that insecurity. Saw all shapes, sizes, ages, and it was so eye and mind opening to realize we all were there as we ARE, sharing a mutual love for nudity and being exposed.
At the beach that day I met the most friendly and REAL people.
Here I on the beach and a young couple stops me and asks if I can take a picture of them with my their camera,. I said sure. After taking the picture this young couple with very nice bodies asked me if I would like them to take a picture of me. Taking my phone/ camera they took some shots of me. We ended up talking for about 20 minutes. Here I am a middle aged guy with size insecurities having a young well built couple within feet of me taking photos of me. Reason for this long story is be who you are! Don't waste years of missing out on the joy, thrill, sensation, freedom, and to me euphoric moments of nudism.
Life is NOW. P.S. the couple that I met who told me they thought I was so cool ended up being friends who I communicate with.....he is a model for Abicrombe and Fitch.
Imagine that a model telling me I'm cool.....Get out there take off your clothes and insecurities with them
AMEN! Get your clothes off and be proud of your body! In fact show it off. I'm of the small penis crowd, compared to some of the guys you see on here, but I've been told that women really don't care, or know the difference. I'm still proud of my body in spite of having only a 7" hardon and fat belly. I'd like nothing better to have a 10" cock, but it still feels just as good to me with mine. I'm sure as it does to the huge cocked guys, and I'll bare it any time that I can. I'm getting to the point where I'm going to answer the door nude someday too, and I'm going to be proud of what they see.
I missed too many opportunities to be nude because I felt I was too heavy. I am now comfortable with myself and that I'm out at the beach because I like swimming and sunning in the nude. Yes, people see me, but that's not why I'm there. Once you're in the situation, you'll see everyone's different, but all have one common interest, we're all NAKED. Tomorrow looks like clouds and thunderstorms, Sunday I'll make my 2+ hour drive to the beach, walk a mile to the unofficial nude area and spend my day natually at the tip of old Cape Cod.
I had that feeling the first time I was in a group at a resort. But, after 15 minutes or so, you can see that all shapes and sizes is true. I just realized This is how i was born, accept it. And I did. All my insecurities were gone, and i had the best time
I had that feeling the first time I was in a group at a resort. But, after 15 minutes or so, you can see that all shapes and sizes is true. I just realized This is how i was born, accept it. And I did. All my insecurities were gone, and i had the best time
I was very nervous the first time going to a resort. All those people are going to stare and judge me. What a let down no one stared, or judged. As has been stated earlier after a short time my insecurities just melted away. I also found I was the one looking and for awhile I was guilty of gawking. There were bodies of every size, shape and no-one cared they were just having a great time being free sand naked.
It was not long after that visit that I stumbled upon TN, and after a quick look I signed up. It took me a little time to get my profile filled out and certified. Since joining I have slowly been adding to my media and enjoy the comments received. My profile is set to all, with a number of photos set to all, I also have a number set to friends only. I want other nudists to be able to view my profile and able after that decide whether or not to friend or message. From the beginning I never thought about setting it to private. I believe if you open your profile and let other nudists see who you are, your feelings of inadequateness will become less, and might even disappear.
Admittedly we all put ourselves at some risk as there are those that troll, and are not who they profess to be. One has to take time and be conscious of who they accept and friend. Saying that, to date our profile has not been hijacked and we feel the majority if not all we have friended are real. We have also met a number personally and struck up real friendships. So my suggestion is take a chance what have you got to lose, weighed to what do you have to gain!
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