Am I a Nudist or a Pervert?
I know there's a huge difference between nudity and sex. Unfortunately for me the lines seem to blur. I like being seen naked. And I like seeing other people naked (especially girls). There is an excitement to it that I can't explain. The pornography I watch often isn't people having sex but people naked in public and what not. When I attend something like naked yoga or other events I always want to make sure there's females there.
I don't stare or get an erection or anything but I can't lie and say I don't get excited when it's time to undress. After we're all naked it feels like no big deal it's almost the anticipation that I look forward to more.
I actually have a similar problem when I have sex. I'm more excited for the part when we get naked than I am for the actual sex. What the heck is wrong with me!?
There is nothing wrong with you. You are self-aware, which is a good thing, and don't seem to have any need to offend or use people. Your relationships with women will probably improve if you lay off the porn. But being turned on by the intimacy of undressing is a perfectly fine thing.
Normally I agree with some of what you post Steve but ... not this time.
This member joined 3 years ago. According to his profile, he's a 30 year old male living in the US and that's ALL the info he's shared and this is his first post ... in 3 years! I'm just wondering how you make that determination and evaluation about his person with nothing to go on or that he isn't some troll. I'm throwing the BS flag on this guy. He sure hasn't done anything in 3 years to convince me otherwise! ;-)
You are a 25-year-old grad student here undercover gathering research material, I am the Queen of Romania, and maybe the OP is a troll, granted. Working a help line once, I called out an obvious troll and hung up; colleagues warned me that was inappropriate. And a few years later (it's a small world) I discovered I had been wrong, and had refused help to someone who needed help, and who had been entirely honest. It's just an internet forum. The stakes aren't high. If I can think of a reasonably kind and possibly constructive response to a post, I'll take it at face value.
I'm with Steve! Very understanding person. Sex & sexuality are part of being alive. Once a person becomes used to being nude around others, the sexual urges and desires will revert to the feelings experienced when in a textile setting.
I'm with Steve! Very understanding person. Sex & sexuality are part of being alive. Once a person becomes used to being nude around others, the sexual urges and desires will revert to the feelings experienced when in a textile setting.
Blank Profile after 3 years here, and this his only post would indicate PERVERT.
LOL......Exactly!
Just as NewGal is yet another FAKE profile.
"HE" at least, has his "New Gal" profile filled out? but only in order to attract Females to write to "HIM"!
Duh, that has never ever been tried before.
Seriously, why not just Delete this entire topic of SEX?
Gee....let us guess?
Because it is the only Topic on this Forum, that will guarantee this site, any consistent action.
We never ever read about all of the present Resorts, or any of the New Resorts ( The New Terra Cotta ) that have been opened, we never ever hear about any of the Beaches or the Cruises or the Events, that might be New to all, or that might be happening in the near to distant future.
But we sure do hear, from all of these pathetic creeps, that "pretend" to be females, or they "pretend" to be a couple, in order to just JO to all of the replies from the idiots, that actually think that these people are REAL. LOL
Really don't know who, is more pathetic? The ones who Pretend to be REAL on this site, or the ones on here, who think that they are actually REAL?
This site just gets worse and worse with all the Fakes and Pretend Nudists on it, with each passing year.
There is only one reason, that the Moderators do not get rid of this Topic.
Its the only Topic, that keeps it going.
We are really surprised, that "New Gal" doesn't ask, what "HE" should do.....when "HE" gets an Erection, while answering all the Idiots on this site, who think that "HE" is actually Female!
Just F%#KING Pathetic, to say the least!
"Jim Short" is now "New Gal".
Sad!
Thanks for the replies. Even the people who called me a troll. The reason my profile isn't filled out and I don't have much activity is because my foray into nudism has been filled with a lot of guilt and shame and back and forth between I want to do this and I don't. I've been dipping my feet in the water for about 3 years now, lol. But you're right. I should ad some information about myself so I don't seem like a creep.
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