when you meet a couple do you check them both out?
When you see a couple do you automatically check them both out? Friends or not, do you find yourself seeing if they have changed anything? do you notice if they are still natural or shaved?
Yes, we look at them, we look them over but I wouldn't say we are "checking them out." We love to people watch and we look at clothed people the way we do at nudist people, with the exception that nude people aren't hiding anything. We try and figure out if we've seen them before, how much time they spend in the sun, no tan lines/tan lines, tats, piercings ... sure we look to see if they are natural or shaved but that's more for logging the percentages of who is and isn't.
I don't think you ever outgrow (for lack of a better word) looking at other nudists. We've been friends with our current circle of nudist friends for over 15 years and we still look each other over throughout our time together. I remember recently spotting a scar on one of our female friends backside and asked "what happened here. That wasn't there the last time we were together." She said that it was a pre cancer mole that had been removed. She also thanked me and hugged me and said, "next time my dermatologist asks about a spot I can't see, I'm having him call you!" Even her husband wasn't aware of the spot before it was removed.
So yeah ... we still look each other over all the time! ;-)
thank you for raising the question and for the thoughtful replies.
as I new nudist, I have really wonderful what the proper etiquette is.
obviously to me, stares, leers and/or attending comments is never appropriate. but a quick attending to that which me eyes see, seems logical and if fact, virtually impossible to not do so.
I imagine that every "nudist" must have given some thought as to what they think is OK when others cast a glance their way - and what is not! I think I will start a new blog: the 10 commandments for nudists. you can look for it in a couple of days.
Therefore: here is my newly formed credo: This is my body, it's the only one I've got. It's not what I wish it were (as in my 20s) but I am ok with that. Since I accept it, as is, I expect you to do the same.
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